Why do not you work?

Have you had to go somewhere or meditation training where you explain something and you say: "E, exactly what I'm looking for so long! Now I know how to change ". Initially after the course you are very keen, do things 100 percent, but not always as expected. Again, things are back to the same level. You begin to ask yourself some questions:

- Am I doing something wrong or not dostatochno what I do?

- Coach Is it invented all this ... all this psychology is nonsense and does not work?

- Maybe I'm too difficult case only if I do not get what is perhaps worse - this is my karma?

- Maybe we should wait ... but how can I wait? I want results NOW!

Indeed, why not have the desired result as soon as you want to or why the changes are not happening?

1. Mission and identity - Who are you and what do you live?

All changes occur, starting from the stage of identification and mission in this life! In simple terms, when you realize WHAT do you live? What can you do?

For example, you say - I am healthy and happy woman with a loving husband and two children.

The coach can give you direction, but it is important for you to start living in a new way.

Answer the questions: What behaviors would have loved a woman? How would you communicate with men? How would apportioned their time and what would be a priority for her? How it objective optimization would understand that living as a loving and beloved wife?

2. Repetition

Brain - a computer that totally hates change. The more things are known about him, the more the better. When he used to live 30 years as a woman who likes men and has to deal with in life, and suddenly she began to tell him: I love men, and let them take care of my brain decided that she cheats. He did not believe her and wait until it passes. Normally, if you repeat it, the effect of training resolves within 3-6 months!

3. Confidence in yourself and the Universe

Believe it is possible. Believe precisely when nothing happens, believe when no one believes even believe, not because! Exit the house without money with full faith that someone will take care of you this day. Make a thing early on and just watch how the universe will help you to become a reality. Reality is what you believe!

Trust the universe, that everything happens exactly when you're ready and when is the right time for you.

Every time you think it does not work - it really stops working for you! You do not need to doubt - you just need faith!

4. visualization

If we talk about love, awakening is pictured hugging his favorite person and it makes breakfast or how you wake up your kids, or how the smell of wood in their new beautiful house. It's important to do it every day at least 20-40 minutes (when awake, sleep and drive a car).

5. surroundings

Be surrounded by people who already have what you need you. This means that they have already come out of this high vibration and when you meet them, so you're somewhere close. Minimize interaction with people who grumble and they pull down, or at least if you have to see them, ask them to tell you only positive things.

6. How to evaluate yourself - Result or process?

Sometimes we chase results so that we stop noticing the process. Very often the process is more important than the actual result. Of course, it depends on the mentality of the people. People in the East are process oriented, people in the West (including Bulgaria) - the result. No coincidence there are so many neuroses in our society. Found the path of personal development. Just the fact that you took a step and I went to training, or buy a book, or often feel happy, or at least realize most things - this is performance!

Praise yourself for what you did for yourself, even for the smallest things. We appreciate your inner work of self that works for you constantly. Give her praise and honor, he managed to do everything on time, you have friends that want to develop that trust in him.

Please, give your praise and encouragement for anything! This is the path to your dreams! I wish you success in this time!

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How to be happy in 2012?

How to be a mature person?

How to live freely?

What do you want?

I have one question most frequently asked of all its customers. This is the hardest question in the world! Sometimes it takes several hours or even days and weeks to really find the answer. This issue relates to the present and future. It requires courage and strength.

Often I ask this question, and the person in front of me goes on to describe how difficult it is his life and why he did not go. I ask him hard again. And he still stubbornly describes my problems ... Why we find it difficult to answer this fascinating question - WHAT YOU WANT?

I have an exercise if you want to do it autonomy. Let someone asks you five minutes just the same question - What are you?

Often in the early going different material things (new car, house, money).

Sometimes people think more about their health and family (I want my family to be happy, all are healthy).

People who do not have happy relationships, want to meet a partner or improve relations with your loved one.

But what always amazes me is that extremely rarely say I love you, I want a new life, I want to be happy and to laugh, I want to have joy and to enjoy the sunset each day, I want to thank myself for all you've done. I want to be!

Rules, and one study was shown that only 10% of people in this world know what they want! The other 30% sometimes know what they want, but only one field. The remaining 60% did not know or rather do not want to know.

  Why so difficult to find the answer to this question? - Because it requires responsibility. Because often become accustomed to living in a "problem area" (which is usually related to the past). Everyone has a past. Each of us has had some problems in it. But my question is what does it focus? On what was (your mother, not you said that you love your husband or who you hurt) or what you really want!

Give yourself some time to sit most loose and if you had the prospect of talking to a magician with a magic prichitsa, asked him what would happen to you?

Some tips how to be to follow your goal:

- Maximum bold (give complete freedom to the dreamer himself)

- Specific (how will you know that it happened, how it will change your behavior, your broadcast, relations with the people next to you, your self-esteem, etc.)

- Realistic - imagine that one year has passed and how this vision fits into your life (this is the time of the internal critic)

- Truthful (ask yourself WHY you want it? Because for yourself or your mother, or because others tell you that you need something)

- Positive (think of at least 10 positive affirmations that will help your goal)

- Hardworking! Working and give 100% of myself to you! All k

oeto described above, no work will be done for sure!

Anything is possible, but you really answer the question: What actually WANT!

How to live free

In every person living two parts.

One answer control and rules. It tells what to do, ensure safety, shows the boundaries and limitations. This part is called the controller. It often takes us further away from ourselves, but we need it.

The second part - want to learn new things, wants to grow, wants to take risks and explore. It's called research. It is our true inner self.

Both parts appear in our body even at birth.

The difference is that the controller is developed whether we do something special for it or not.

The researcher, however, if you do not grow particularly unlikely to grow up alone, rather the contrary, began to decline.

When the controller becomes very strong and great within us, the researcher almost disappears and you feel trapped. Often such people are easily annoyed by others, difficulty expressing their feelings and emotions often feel pressured or depressed. Very hard to enjoy things all the time and are not satisfied murmur. They ask me why should this happen? Why are people next to me were so clogged?

On the physiological level are possible diseases associated with the lungs, shortness of breath, asthma.

When a researcher develops, one feels joy, euphoria, pleasure. All this is a consequence of the action when it passes its borders which are always accompanied by fear and internal resistance.

The resistance is the most important criterion that we develop. This means that we are moving towards the light.

Take for example a standard bulb. It has two poles: the plus and minus. In the middle is the thread of resistance. The moment it stops, the light bulb goes off.

So resistance is an opportunity to bring light into our lives.

The pleasure, joy and happiness, it is a plus, but on the other end, sadness, depression and apathy, it is the negative aspect.

Halfway between fear and resistance lives.

At the moment when we move from one state to another, we come to himself and his inner useshtanie fortunately, the inner peace with himself.

How to move forward?

Think of situations where you have been very brave, successful, achieving and capable. Remember how you felt, how you look, what kind of people they were close to you, how do these people have treated you, what you are saying.

Get all the energy of courage and select something that any action that many scares you.

For example, tell your parents or significant person how much you love them.

Tell your boss about your new idea or to ask for a higher salary.

To ask someone for help or offer him your help.

Tell your sexual partner about their sexual desires.

Enter the state of the resource that brave explorer and when you feel the greatest fear, just go ahead.

Start with smaller fears and gradually increase their wishes. Be brave and allow the researcher to live with you 100%! Go through your resistance and you will find yourself at the other pole. Let there be light in your life!

How to be happy in 2012

The end of 2011. This is a magical time that we can do what we have achieved retrospect so far and plan to do new things that lie ahead in the new year.

It is very important to treat this period with respect and reverence.

How to develop during the crisis? Even in times of crisis many people rich. How can we be one of them?


  Years ago I made ​​a study at Harvard, where task assigned to students to write their goals for 1, 3, 5, 10, 20 years. Most of them manage to write goals for one year. It's harder to write three and the most difficult was it to write for 5-10 years. After a while it turns out that 5-10% of people who wrote their goals for 10 and 20 years, earning more than the other 90% who did not.

I have a ritual - a small each year, in January month, sit down and I remember what I made ​​last year, when I'm writing goals and dreams to the next.

I notice that 70% of what I have planned is true.

Which techniques are successful to dreams come true?:

1. Calm your mind.

When you stop chasing you, you can hear your heart.

Take some time to relax your mind and listen to your heart beating. Notice what part of your body is more relaxed and which is most intense. Release the air in this part. Breathe - freedom and happiness and exhale - tensions and fears. People usually breathe very shallow. Breathe very deep cut. Let's get to the air under the tail spine. The mind is most often located either in the future or in the past, but my heart lives in the present and gives integrity. Breathe and feel yourself. Do this at least 5-10 minutes, until you feel calm and you are in contact with them.

2. Give yourself credit for what you have done.

Make a list of at least 30 things to see what you have accomplished. Then tell yourself: name ... I'm proud of you! Thank you for the wonderful job! It is very nice to you (by yourself).

Our inner child provides us strength and energy for all these things, it is important to give him my support and gratitude.

3. Find out what is the meaning of your life the following year he.

Ask yourself at least 100 times, what is the true meaning of my life? Ask this question to yourself until you get an emotional response as tears or laughter.

4. Use them as a resource.

Imagine an empty room with two chairs. Imagine this room on a chair you are in nastoyashiya moment, and the next - are you after 5 years. Look at how you look, how you talk, what you broadcast. I ask prospective for advice and guidance. Talk to him 5-10 minutes. Then say goodbye to him. Now imagine you 5 years ago (2006). Look through the eyes of its current self. Notice how you have changed so much power, knowledge and experience you have acquired. Note how was I asking you questions that you probably already have opened their. Feel this power. Now say goodbye to your past self. From this position, reappointed her future self. Talk to him again. Then invite all three and make them transparent. Merge them and take their power and resources in themselves. Feel how much you have learned!

Remember that life in the new year is in your hands and you will be what you desire.

Human Design System

Human Design System is a new science. It reveals not only the understanding of human life itself, but a lot of specific knowledge for each individual: his health, personal psychology, his vulnerability and his talents. It also provides knowledge about human relationships and family dynamics.

Human design to answer fundamental questions such as:

1. How to know yourself and accept who you and not to seek to change

2. "Strategies" that will help you live in harmony with your true nature

3. How to use your "inner authority" for the correct choices in life

4. Do you have less sense of neudovoletvorenie and resistance in your daily life

5. This information will help you get a deeper understanding of how unique each of us.

 

The company's customers range from commercial enterprises to public organizations, NGOs, ministries, regional and municipal authorities, non-profit associations. Our activity includes conducting training seminars and private sessions for business and public authorities on the design and implementation of human resources.

 

Human design aims to improve the quality of your life by examining the human based on birth date and time and place of birth. Through a computer program to create a map - a project through which you can further explore and examine the strengths and weaknesses of each person. The map will provide information on:

 

1. Biological drive of the individual

2. The power of the mind;

3. How to work;

4. How to manifest their potential;

5. Path and direction;

6. What is conditional on the other;

7. Partniorskite relationship

8. Power to assert itself;

9. How not to lose your individuality;

10. How to make decisions;

11. The strategy of our lives.

Human Design helps each person on his personal life. HumanDesigne idea to harmonize personal total stream flow. Obviously, to know for their unique design and living it are two different things. To live in accordance with nature, we have to make an effort. You can learn to contemplate your personal design with your mind, but you live, you can learn just life itself.

Type and Strategy

The type is the most important aspect HumanDesign. If you know what type you can begin to reveal his nature and so have the tools to take yourself and realize its values​​.

Experience your personal style release your true self. It's like a user manual, which allows you to live your life the way you were born to live. Suffice it to experiment with the model and the strategy of its type and see for yourself if it works. Types are - manifestor, generator manifesting generator searchlight reflector. Type in HumanDesignnyama do with psychological and personality types. This structure type is related to body types with genetic type and determines health, sexuality, relationships, determine our overall genetic structure as a human being.

How to be a mature person?

Who among us has heard at least once: "You're very immature / a, as a little selfish girl / boy. Need to grow up. "I admit, I've heard more than once. Maybe that's what led me to explore this topic: What it means to be a mature person, what are the steps and what to profit from its maturity?

Maturity is synonymous with the term self-sufficiency. Mature people think: "I want to be with that person, not because I can not do without it (which is dependent on love or as Maslow A. - defitsitarna). I want to be with this person, because together we are more or 1 +1 = 3 ". While satisfying our needs (which we wrote in the previous article) are connected to 100% with the other person, we will always have a dependent relationship.

So if we are emotionally connected with the person (without he / she can not be happy) and financially (without him / her no money or the same level of learning), social (what will people say if divorced / separated) intellectually (no one to talk to who understands me), sex (with him / her do one sex), then we give threads that our partner can and will pull.

So:

First condition of a mature person is ourselves to be responsible for meeting these five requirements. Even if you have no partner to him, we can still meet them.

Second - mature person gives and receives love through gratitude, acceptance and forgiveness. This means that we must give thanks every day of the partner who is up to us. He / She owes you nothing. This means that if he / she does everything to make you happy, have a heart to his / her thanks for it.

Sorry - no one is perfect. Often the person next to us do not realize our expectations, but this is a problem for ourselves, not for our partners.

Take - partner will never change if you do not change yourself. Any changes always start inside!

Third - maturity not accept speed and impatience. All the really important things take time and patience. The baby can not be born in two months, it takes at least seven. Immature man wants fast and now waits mature calm and know that everything is on time. Mature person does not jump to conclusions, it waits until it all becomes clear and only then decide.

Fourth - better define and talk about their feelings.

Emotions are the way to the heart and to ourselves. Through feelings we develop and we can help our partner to develop. When we do not attach particular importance, feelings tend to accumulate and then either go up (as occurs outbreaks and conflict), or go inside (and receive problems). Both things are not very good. So every time you interact with people important to you, ask yourself: what I feel at the moment and at least tell himself. Until you learn to respect your feelings, your partner will not respect them.

Fifth - good relationships with our parents.

Maybe I should put this in the first place. Whatever we have parents, it is our responsibility to have a good relationship with them. Love them, respect them and show them their importance for them. Until you do that, nothing we have achieved and will continue to have problems with our partners and children. It is important to accept the fact that children can choose their parents, and parents can choose their children. And this is no accident. That these parents we learn things that we will need to develop.

Sixth - Ability to listen and hear.

When communicating with a person, look at the situation through his eyes. Listen to him alone, away from his thoughts and be 100% with him. Feel it as a person, feel its power and communicate with him on his level. Do not condemn, only hear it with your ears, eyes and mind. To really listen with open ears and heart it is important to be open. Without evaluate, criticize and condemn. Just listen, find out what they want to say and be there 100%.

Seventh, be honest with yourself.

Conscience is a built-in mechanism for happiness and if all people were honest and conscientious living, perhaps we would not have needed psychologists. Honesty means not invent false motivations. To admit to himself why lie now and what money. There are things that it is better to say nothing if you do not want to hurt our partner. Lie to help or save someone allowed. But it is worth pondering why we're in this situation. Honesty requires great courage and gives wings and attracts us mature partners.

Eighth - take responsibility for their actions, thoughts and feelings.

Often we we replace responsibility with guilt and position of the victim. Guilt is always a trap when we are guilty, then you should be punished. We draw on their own problems in our lives. The important thing is not to blame, but to assume that it is our choice at the moment and make the best of what we can do. If I knew how to do it better, I would do it. Be responsible for your life. There is no concept of "just so happened" there - "I made it happen."

Ninth - have real friends who are willing to do anything.

Friendship does not imply condemnation (that makes ego). Friends are people that we trust to always accept us as we are. The first step is you have real friends, you can be yourself and feel comfortable. Second - to care for them unconditionally and to learn to give without expecting to receive something in return. Third - what are our motives have friends and friends what we really need? Our friends reflect our level of development. Please refer to the them, and most likely see yourself.

Tenth - strive to be happy.

Mature people often smile and can enjoy life. They perceive that everything in life is easy and can enjoy what we have now. She believed that the universe is friendly and full of resources.

There are probably a lot of other criteria of maturity. However, if we can keep those things are very likely to attract more mature and partners. Even to develop itself, it can develop your partner.

What prevents you from being a goddess?

Every woman is a goddess hidden inside. There is no woman who does not have this effect.
Any woman can work miracles and live with ease.
Every woman is born with one primary mission in life - to be happy.
So why, if we want does not always feel goddesses?

What prevents us from truly feel goddesses? What makes ordinary woman goddess?


1. Family - true goddess respect and understand his family
This is not to hear her mother every day and to live with them. This means on the one hand to feel close to them, you can share the happy and difficult moments of his life with them. On the other hand - to be independent of their opinion, to do what you think is right, you can let things like that happen, that did not occur to them.


2. To put yourself first and know what you want
So many books and articles have been written on this topic. Now you might think: I know that! But to know and not to do it in real life it means that you do not know.
It is important to be clear about what you want, what your values ​​are and do not let anyone have your opinions. Normally you wish to change and what was updated last month, now do not be so important. Putting his intention to write the day of the week, months of the year, for several years.


3. "Drop" things - free space
"Run" people they do not need. Give clothes you do not wear more than 1-2 years, or you simply do not deliver happiness. If you do not like your home, start thinking in the direction of how to change it. The same applies for the job. Everything that does not make you happy and feel that they bother to go.

4. Knowing their strengths and develop them

Write right now 10 of his strengths. Strengths are things you do with ease, pleasure you like you and those around you. These are things that have quick results and quickly teach them.

5. To use the words high vibration

Each word has a vibration. So treat prayers and words hurt bad.

  What words used goddess? Thanks for a wonderful, happy, joy, light, love, desire, humility, blessing, honor, respect, warmth divine, worthy, let, dream, believe, pray, enjoying, freedom, intimacy.

6. Observe your feelings and emotional sagacity and holds

Goddess is aware of their feelings and emotions. She realizes how her body reacts to different types of food. How did her soul to communicate with different people. How does she feel after watching different movies. It continuously monitors itself carefully to understand exactly what he wants her soul, her body, her feelings. She listens to your heart and follow it.

7. Promises to yourself

If she promises something to myself - this is done and it is important for her because she remembers that she is the most important person for her!!

8. Meditate and / or pray

Our soul also needs to be trained and practiced it when we pray. Choose at least 1-2 prayers of his religion aside each day for at least 5-10 minutes to pray. This makes the soul strong.

9. Believes in himself and deserves the best!

She knows that the universe take care of it, that the universe is friendly and full of resources. She gladly and gratefully accept all gifts received. She has a belief that everything in her life comes easily.

NEW Practical tips on how to be happy

Say aloud: I am a happy person. I am a happy man / woman. I am happy in my professional field. Notice what are the first thoughts that occur to you? Maybe your answer - of course it is!, Or - in some areas, yes, but for others - I would not say / and or - I can not call myself a happy person, so many things I miss.

Happiness is an inner state, which depends only on you and is directly related to how much you are centered.

Being centered means, regardless of when the events that happen to you in your life, you stay calm and confident that everything is going the right way. Being centered also means having confidence in yourself, your relatives and friends of people, and most importantly - to the universe.

Tip: Close your eyes and remember the moment in your life when you felt / a very calm / but a confident / her and be proud / but with yourself. Felt in any part of your body has that feeling and put out their hand. Ask yourself: Where is the center of my body, what place I get in touch with the source of energy and its soul? Put your hand on this place and go to the feeling of serenity and peace. If you find it / and correctly, you will see those good feelings. If not - make it more vedanzh.

Take decisions on welfare position that you already possess everything you need.

Tip: Before taking any decision, sit down and think about what it will bring you what you want to get it. Imagine that you already have it. If you look for a job - you already have a lot of money if you are looking for partners - already have love and sex. If you have these resources - would you choose this job or that person?

Realize what you want and visualize!

Imagine that appears a fairy or magician with magic wand and you can wish all you dream - what would you ask / huh? Describe it in detail! When you get everything you wish for, describe from the moment you wake up until you go to bed to sleep, one of your lucky day - how do you wake up with whom, at what time and what you do, how you go day - absalyutno everything. Doing so within 100 days of 5 minutes. You'll start to get drastic changes now after 30 days. Just watch!

Enjoy what you have and notice the signs.

Write a list of at least 100 things that currently make you happy now / a, starting with the words: Thank you / I am ... and write about what you are grateful / a. Found an interesting, expensive cars, or if your friends have bought a new house, or one of your colleagues have raised it at work, say out loud, thank you that you have. This is very good sign for me that I live in your vibration! Pay attention to billboards, random words that you hear from people passing, titles of books, movies scenes - all these are signs for you, by which the universe wants to tell you which way you go.

Liberation of generic scenarios.

If you feel that you have problems that are repeated - your parents have had similar problems, and now you have them - you have a generic program (continuously repeating pattern). Therefore, you should seek professional help, which they dispose of it.

Tip: At least noticing problems and save them to know how to work, when you go to a specialist.

Check your surroundings

Write a list of people you communicate who share your values. Write a list of people who have managed more than you and prestige for you. Write a list of people who are far behind you, there are unhappy, negative and unhappy. Write how much time a week set apart for all these people. What are your priority and which devote the least time? Put this in the first place, they "pull" forward and reduce as far as possible such that they "pulled" back.

And the last thing I want to spoedelya is that happiness is not the end of life journey. Happiness is just the beginning. When you find your self and who you are - until then life really begins!