What does the ideal lover in Bulgarian men?

All women have want beloved to him. In this connection, but to find it you have to hold it. Sex is not the only, but very powerful weapon which you can achieve it.

There are many studies, mainly American agencies on what men understand the term "perfect lover."

On the occasion of March 8, our training center did research to what "ideal lover" by Bulgarian men?

The ideal lover:

1. Proactively. It is no secret that the man wants to be seduced, and it is important that the woman indicates that it wishes to offer herself and sex. Very nice if, after a light dinner, she looked him in the eye and say: Honey, I want to suck and then make wild sex.

2. Maintained and beautiful. Men do not take their wives to be like Angelina Jolie, but insist no hair to play sports, be arranged her clothes to her to go and meet his requirements for beauty, etc. The woman has two main responsibilities in life: to be beautiful and be happy! That's it! If it complies with these laws, the men in her life will take care of the rest.

3. Ready for experiments. Men love and are excited by new things. They want to try and test. So they want a woman who constantly provoke them to do something new. New positions, new mesta, new toys, maybe even new partners. Badete brave and remember women like stability and security men - to widen their options.

4. He loves all kinds of sex. For all understand that she is happy to offer to make oral sex and swallowing with pleasure, saying: Yep, you're so delicious! Also happy to have anal sex. Be creative.

5. Says about their desires and give feedback. Men are visionaries and they may not know what they want in sex. It is important that each woman briefly, precisely and specifically tell him what he wants and what he expects from him. Furthermore, men are smart and if you tell them what and how you like two or three times, they will learn and you will not have to explain to them the same thing every time. After sex, you can share what you like most and what you could do better.

6. After sex not talking about relationship. For men, sex is a sport and not have to end once you ask them: we now have a connection or when I would ring. It's nice to just praise and tell him compliment associated with its male qualities (strength, confidence, best lover, etc.). Men need your admiration.

7. To love your body and it know.Often women worry that their body is not ideal to have cellulite, stretch marks, etc. For these reasons, they do not allow their partner to see them and want to have sex in the dark. But for most men, it is important to look at the woman during sex! Note that for the man every woman look beautiful and sexy during sex! Learn to love your body and your genitals. Notice what touches you most excited, determine their sexual areas and share them to your partner. Sex during the day and enjoy both of sight.

8. Being a slut. Marsnitsa is a great compliment to a woman. If a woman fails to be a slut wife in bed, then surely the number of cheating would be reduced drastically. Slut is always ready. She wants sex and radiates sexual energy. To awaken it in ourselves, read porn stories, talk about sex out loud, watch movies related to sex, eat your food slowly and with pleasure. Good lover focuses on that - delight everywhere.

You women are born for fun! Remember that and allow yourself to be beautiful, loving, loved and happy!

How to develop the sexual instinct in men?

There is a widespread myth about men and women. And it is that fair sex had less desire for sex ... You see, poor men are so lacking as much as they actually want.

But there is something that is far from the truth! Because there are places in the world - such as parts of Asia, Latin America and Africa, where women are considered the main initiator of sex and so energetic in bed that their men do not need to go to the gym. How do you obyasnavate this?

In fact, if you're a man suffering from a lack of erotic satisfaction, not necessarily your women are guilty.

Better think about that as they put the label of nuns in bed and behave as if the myth is true God, yourself can deny the many good sex had envisioned.

So men today spend a long time in thoughts and fantasies about sex and also afraid of the same thing I want.

They want to be with a woman in every sense of that phrase, and many of them actually make links. But those links do not appear to be passionate and close relations, who have dreamed of. They are built based more on social savmestmost - that they share common interests and values ​​and have similar views on many issues.

Even at its inception, these connections are started not so for sexual attraction and passion. In fact, I know a lot of young, good looking and successful men who are married early, have children and are now sexually unhappy in her marriage. So throw away eye instead consider how to arouse passion in the primary relationship. I can not help wondering why the first have banded with women who are not raztreparvali their feet ...

To create a connection only on social compatibility edvovremenno has both positive and negative aspects. Positive because it means that a good friendship relationship husband and wife often quarrel among themselves. Why do they argue? So they have no spark and cause your blood to boil. And because there is no one specific fire except that their relationship is stable, it is also quite boring - especially sexually ...

Maintaining such vrazka, the man immediately arrive at the conclusion that things are true because his wife just did not have enough libido. And naturally, began to look more "sex" (no quotes misprint) outside ramkite legitimate relationship.

But really what sex would be like when he could not inspire the woman who is willing to do more. And it is unlikely to satisfy the real lover, which his clumsy and not very exciting libido is "possessed" by their radar.

During a workshop with men happened to me to ask bold question in some primitive tribes still put the boys in their ritual of growing into a man (you know, probably the "Discovery" are rituals challenges boys in puberty must pass in order to be able later to be taken seriously as men in his tribe). So what I told my students is this: "He who is brave and bold man and not afraid of women become now! There were a dozen men, but for a while no one did. Finally one of them scratched his scalp, twirled in his chair and stood up. I asked because I thought that he was a real man and you know what I say? ... It was something in the spirit of "do not know, I just decided to become a ..."

A real man is fearless in his soul. It feels very powerful feeling to rise within him - as if a lion leaps and utters a roar in his brain when his masculinity is questioned. And this strong sensation comes from misguided courage - I mean one that actually Pradstavlyava aggressiveness (aggressiveness always afraid to turn inside out). Do not talk about reckless courage and proving yourself in paunskiya option.

Rather, I mean an inner strength that man feels to get up in his heart. He may not know exactly what awaits him, but trust yourself to see how things will develop in stride - so he is a hunter, adventurer and explorer.

If you trust your sexual instincts and intuition, it clears your idea of ​​what you want and guide you to the right woman. Makes you naprivite things that are correct for you as an individual, and not bother to make a script that some "guru" (on paper or in person), without ever knows you, you impose.

Your own sexual instinct is the best guru and it helps you make the perfect decision every time. When purified and you learn to cope with it, he does so act immediately, without wasting time and minute doubts and speculation. Instinct knows ways in which you can achieve the best for themselves in physical, emotional and sexual level. These are the ways that your conscious mind, which is zazubril strategies and pickup lines to start a conversation, you can never tell you. Like piecing you have a personal trainer who is always available.

Nepotiskaniyat sexual instinct is one that makes you become when you ask if you brave and true man.

Men who possess it in pure form, are those who accosted the girl when he smiles at them. They are the ones who commit when the time of their lives come and met quality woman. These are men who do not need to brag about his sexual conquests, and in fact make good sex and no problem attracting and retaining female with high libido. These are men who are not afraid of intimacy with a partner who meets their criteria and do not feel they can not hold it.

How to rediscover male sexual instinct? In short, to work on yourself. In fact, the job may not be so short, but worth it. In the beginning when you just started to trust a sexual instinct, sometimes things will occur, sometimes - not. With practice will naturally get a better estimate when you listen to your inner sex "advisor" who says things like, go invite her out.

Learning to listen to their sexual instincts that modern education and society in general suppresses all men will be paid to the extent that not even suspect.

How nice it would be if all we acknowledge their sexual instincts for what they really are: a way to achieve mutual passion, intimacy and carrier compatibility, and true love.

Signs of suppressed sexual instinct:

1. Low Libido

2. Very strong libido with a desire for frequent change of partners

3. Timidity in the company of women, or vice versa - a desire for continuous speech in the company of women

4. Desire to hide from the attention of the people or vice versa - neprakasnato desire for attention from other

5. Fear that you will not get enough sex

6. Negligence of sex

7. Continuous speech jokes and sexual themes

8. Desire to watch a lot of porn

9. Desire to show off to your friends with your sex life

10. Fear of loneliness, fear of commitment or fear of intimacy

11. It crosses your mind that if you do a lot of sex, you are a man istiski

12. Excessive desire to please and be polite to women or vice versa - rude behavior towards women and desire to bombarded with cynicism

13. Negative attitude towards women - thoughts that they can not be understood and are annoying or overly demanding

14. Cheating - whether you cheat or cheat on you

Signs of free expression sexual instinct:

1. Often feel causeless joy of life

2. Feel good with people, whether silent or talking

3. Free show it like a woman and it usually strikes you the same

4. You feel comfortable in the company of women, but you are able to maintain a true friendship with men

5. Own determination of the nature

6. Have personal charisma without bragging and grandstanding

7. As you look, you know you have a charm

8. Easy take when the woman / women you say "no" on the other hand you are good spkoyno to say "no"

9. Have regular and satisfying sex life

10. You agree that masturbation is normal

11. Control his ejaculation

12. Fall of passionate partner

13. Can make compliments to women

14. Easily keep in touch

15. You know what you want out of life and love

16. Easily bind if you want

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Sexual Advice for Women

Sexual Advice for Women
About 30% of women reach vaginal orgasm 90% - receive clitoral (usually masturbation), 40-50% enjoy uterine orgasm felt female 20-30 eakulyatsiya. So every woman experiences it differently. Some of them have all kinds of orgasm, others only one or two of them. A woman must continually develop their sexuality and stimulate your creative sexual energy through the home.
  From small teach us what not to do, but no one tells us how to become better lovers. An important part of the secrets of pleasure associated with the techniques to reach orgasm.

Reathe through your mouth

The first and most important technique to experience the full pleasure woman the breathing. During sex, you should breathe through the mouth instead of the nose, because then it includes so-called "internal controller". It does not allow us to relax because he restrain his groans and try to be quiet. Orgasm for a woman is like a little "death." Then she lost control of himself. The truth is that every woman dreams to achieve this award, but was afraid, because he wanted everything to be controlled But her biggest obstacle to reach climax is fear.

Show your orgasm

Woman paints even the physiology of orgasm. Bother of noises and secretions that separates from that can become more aggressive, or that her face is not beautiful. It is a myth that the man does not like a woman's physiology during orgasm. His greatest expectation is to see just such a partner - loose and free. Otherwise he may be embarrassed. So the second rule - show your orgasm.

Teach him to speak to you

A third important technique is to talk during sex. This advice is more to the man. It must be said everything he sees in front of him - beautiful breasts, abdomen, legs. Most importantly, the woman is relaxed, so it is useful to repeat her how beautiful she is. Someone reminded her erotic moments between them in the past, the easier it will excite January. The man also expects the woman to tell him what he wants, where to kiss, how to touch her. Talk to her to feel better.

Lie to your brain

A survey by a woman during sex conceive a pedicure, how you look, what would you say it then. Here the most important is it to choose a word, for example - ecstasy or pleasure and to repeat himself. Thus it lies brain. Women, unlike men, while feel and think as they think or just or just feel, so no problem with orgasm. Focusing on one word hypnotize and helps to enjoy the feeling.

Do not underestimate the love games

One problem with couples who live together for many years that sex becomes monotonous. A man looking for new experiences, for it is important to have diversity. So seksolozhkata recommended sexual role playing games. And because the nature of polygamous men, it is the woman every time I enter into different roles and transformed during the overture love. One of the most important techniques is recommended both to have sex blindfolded. Then enhances the sensitivity of the partners, and with it the pleasure.

Anal Sex

He brings a lot of joy. Often women are afraid of him because of the pain. It only hurts if women are the preparation, she says. First, the shower is a must. Then anus should be prepared with a lubricant and massage. It is strictly forbidden to do without such training. This sex makes one of the strongest orgasms. It is proved by gynecologists that kind of hemorrhoids prevention. Certainly not recommended every day and every two weeks.

Oral Sex

For men, oral sex is more intimate and personal. In it's most important not to rhythm changes to a lot of saliva, because dryness causes pain and the third - do not stop until your partner is not over.

Board

When a woman wants to make love because of a mistake of man, it is said to him. He should not think that was rejected without reason.

Lack of sex drive

Many women complain that they have no desire for sex. So think about it, watching erotic movies and masturbating. With self-sufficiency alone find most enjoyable way for us, who can then show partner. It is important to provoke their sexual awareness, otherwise we risk to fall into depression. Sexually aroused woman never became depressed. Sexual happiest man can hardly be manipulated. A lack of sexual freedom prevents us from even doing their jobs properly. Sexual energy provides energy for life.

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How to get an orgasm!

Techniques to improve orgasms in women. Before you learn how to have an orgasm, you must determine what orgasm is able to feel a woman.

1. The first type of orgasm - one that women feel most is clitoral (it can be experienced by 80-90% of women)

How to do that?

Alone, the easiest way is to masturbation (with fingers, soul, sex toys, squeezing the buttocks to one another, for biking or horse riding).

With a partner - you can also achieve it - in posture, the woman (posture "Rider") or when the partner stimulate her clitoris with your tongue or fingers.

Features: This type of orgasm was first described by Sigmund Freud. It is easiest to obtain. It is very fast and gives little satisfaction. Almost every woman gets it alone, but always with his partner.

Duration and how does: clitoral orgasm takes 1 to 3 seconds. Much like the male orgasm. Only it's not so strong.

2. The second type, which is also quite common is vaginal orgasm (you have 40-50% of women).

How to do that?

Alone - using faloimitator and touch the G-spot, which is located in the upper part of the vagina 5-7 cm into the direction of the bladder to the abdomen. The effect should be like flick with two fingers. The idea is that something has to be there and fills.

With a partner, a member of intrusions into the vagina. Also fingers touch the G-spot or in the reverse missionary position where the woman, not the man occupies the top position on top. You can also get it in position "Rider" and when a woman moves from side to side (from the man's face towards the back) without looking up from his own body. In this position, if it is running more than 3-4 minutes, the man's erection may drop - why do occasionally and top-down movements to stimulate his cock.

Features: vaginal orgasm causes spasms or convulsions in the vagina and lower abdomen. Feeling like the waves of pleasure that are amplified if the partner keeps moving. At the moment of climax partner should slow down, but after the climax (after 2-7 seconds), it is better to start making the first slow, then faster movements - so he will bring a new woman to orgasm. She could face one to 5-6 orgasms at once.

Duration and how does: vaginal orgasm is longer than clitoral and a wave that is not so strong and bright, but it is a long, sometimes lasting from 3 to 30 seconds.

3. The third type of orgasm is called female ejaculation (the receiving 30-40% of women).

How to achieve it: This type of orgasm is obtained by stimulating the G-spot and the upper wall of the vagina, which in turn pressure the bladder. So the first reaction is if you need to urinate often, so women stop there. We should not give up - if you go really pour some liquid, but what when you orgasm that takes you to another dimension of the world. Scientists have done research and have proven that this ejaculation, orgasm entsefalogramata brain in women is the same as the monks who meditated for several years to achieve this status! Sometimes this can get ejaculation and cunnilingus longer.

Alone - you can not accomplish with faloimitator in both stimulating the clitoris and vagina at different speeds. But it is not easy.

With a partner, for stimulation of the clitoris with your tongue (the proper performance of cunnilingus is a science!) And simultaneously pressing the G-spot with your fingers.

Features: female ejaculation consists of urine and female juices from the uterus, which together form a liquid with almost no odor. So, dear women, no reason to worry. Some women find that orgasms for involuntary urination, but not female ejaculation something to do with it. It would be good before you have sex to urinate and put towels underneath to make you more relaxed. Men will be very proud of yourself if this could cause ejaculation in you. And after such a bold orgasm you can tell him, with you I became a real woman! With this type of orgasm husband really sure that you've done.

Duration and how does: always arises unexpectedly. You can not control when ejaculation will appear. For relaxation, she comes alone. Runs a few seconds and then there is another 5-10 seconds pleasant feeling. At that moment, man must leave you in peace. It closely resembles the male orgasm and men need to understand why we do not want to touch this right after orgasm.

4. The Fourth Kind is anal orgasm (face it 30% of women).

An interesting fact is that just anal orgasm can be obtained from women quickly, but they often avoid it because of prejudices and complexes.

How to do that? When anal sex. For a start it is better if the front man, and lightly stroked her clit as she tries to fully relax in the area of ​​the anus. Anal sex uterus walls are pretty close. Even closer than vaginal penetration. Why anal sex is very easy to get a uterine orgasm. Uterine orgasm occurs when pressing the uterine walls. Anal sex - it's sex that is necessarily connected with the maximum confidence in a partner. Only if you trust, you can relax and have fun. Anal sex is not tied to the amount of members. Even in the case of larger size with proper training and a large amount of lubricant, it can be painless and pleasant.

Features: anal sex is the most important preparation. You should always start with penetration with a finger and a mandatory special cream (without lidocaine, it reduces the feeling and can lead to injuries - pain is a criterion that something needs to change) or oil, although special lubricant is preferable. Once a finger penetrates easily partner puts the second and third fingers, and then to offer a woman to put herself in members. As she puts it herself, fear is reduced and its sense is to control the situation. When it penetrates only the head, this time is the most painful and there is good to stop for a while and get used to it he can caress her clit when little woman relax muscles can continue to put the whole article . Women now have to try to fully relax - as if an act of defecation.

Duration and how does: anal orgasm can last from 30 seconds to 3 minutes (the latter when combined with uterine). He is very strong and very long, provided that the woman is granted. It flows like waves and convulsions, which again are not as strong, but increased with subsequent strokes. It can also be multiple, if the man does not cease to act. It is interesting that just in this type of sex breaks are more important than movement. Sometimes it is just that penetration and do nothing makes a woman more sensations than active movements.

Physiology, of course, is important, but often what prevents you from just in your head. Sex - it's a gift to us only if we use this gift and if you get pleasure from it, instead of limiting yourself.

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Reasons why a woman an orgasm

Before talking about the psychological reasons for lack of orgasm, you can be sure that no woman physiological reasons. If it reaches the top masturbation, it means that she will have psychological problems and to work with your head.

And here is what might be in her reasons:

1. Inability to relax with your partner. Lacking confidence in partner - when you can not trust the man next to you, you can not let him cause he can witness your orgasm.

2. Fears: the fear of getting pregnant, fear of disease, fear to give yourself and lose their boundaries, fear that they will be with Unattractive face during orgasm, fear of intimacy.

3. Incorrect breathing (proper breathing during sex is always in the mouth and ideally in the same rhythm with partner)

4. Unsuitable conditions (if there is any other people or the bed was very uncomfortable, cold or hot, etc.)

5. Personal complexes and worries that there is something wrong with your body (smell, in a loop or you think your belly is big, breasts are beautiful)

6. Strictly or improper upbringing in which sex is named something dirty and bad (most often the mother has not received any orgasms and tells his daughter that this is normal and this is the fate of women).

7. Rejection and lack of information about themselves and their bodies - fear lest they get female ejaculation that you think is involuntary urination, understanding what happens to you during orgasm.

8. Negative experiences in the past - often if the partner was inexperienced or not endeavored to induce sexual pleasure, she decides that sex is uncomfortable and invented for men.

9. If she knows that it's only for one night - not considered a serious partner and does not want to reveal to him because orgazat is something very intimate.

10. Too much thinking about orgasms and great care

11. Partner ends very quickly (ie within 5 minutes) and he should be helped to delay ejaculation.


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Nature of female orgasm

Renowned Danish medical sexologist beat Hertoft strongly approve:

"The ability to experience orgasm is mainly determined by the properties of the individual, rather than a sexual technique."

Female orgasm ... No man on earth, whether male or female, who would pass up this topic without emotions. Limited number of lucky "Holder" of orgasms head up and tell you how to easily and quickly reach climax. All others who have not experienced this time, avoid talking on the subject, saying that besides sex life has more important things: kids, work, house. According to statistics, 90% of men say that almost every time their partner an orgasm. Actually samo40-50% of women experience vaginal orgasm with a partner, while 80 to 90% reach clitoral orgasm through masturbation. Where is the hidden truth?

Nature orgasm

Female orgasm ... It has been studied by hundreds of scientists, but so far no general consensus. Why is it so hard to define what "vaginal orgasm"? What should I do or not to do woman to receive it regularly?

What man would not want to hear from his wife: honey, stop, I can not ... more to ... go!

Let's look back in history. Years ago, the standards of society, the ability for a woman to experience orgasm and show their emotions in bed was something extraordinary and wrong. Only women from lower social level or favorites, courtesans, etc. could not afford to have an orgasm and to show their emotions. According statistikatata in 1920 women earned orgasms three times more often than women in 1950 and 10 times more often than women today.

Today, the woman MUST have an orgasm. And the word has led men to try to challenge him and the woman, in turn, tries to get ... This leads to some artificial game, everyone tries not so much for his own pleasure, but to prove to your partner that with me it's okay. Men more so proving that they are good in bed. And it proved to him that mega-sexual. Finally pumping voltage and when its voltage is much more difficult to get an orgasm. Therefore, it sometimes fails to get it (after all that stress is natural) and simulate orgasm. The man is quite rare clear is it done or not, so at the end hesitantly asks her: you do it? She quickly meets "yes". Men also enjoy a rapid turn reach climax. And everyone plays happy. She does not want to tell him that simulate he does not really understand it reached the top, or just pretending.

What are the consequences when a woman does not end?

Physiological consequences. Pain in the lower abdomen and sometimes the waist. The main reason is that the blood spilled into the muscles of the pelvis, but not getting out. This forms a stagnation of blood. Men receive such conditions that manifest as pain in the testicles if they were very excited and they are not done. If this is repeated regularly - then the female formed myoma, hardly flowing premenstrual syndrome, polycystic ovaries, uterine bleeding. Such women are more easily prone to catching various infections and other problems associated with female physiology.

Emotional consequences. The main cause of neurosis is hidden in a woman's dissatisfaction. Other possible conditions are depression, bad moods, headaches and irritability.

Social consequences. Women who do not get orgasms often have partners or even if there is a relationship built on mutual manipulation or cheating husband regularly. Also the productivity of working women greatly reduces unmet.

Psychological consequences. A woman who does not get orgasms feel inferior and almost always have problems with self-confidence.

Why female orgasm is one of the major pleasures of life. And each of us could feel it, as long as it wants.

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Sexual Culture in Bulgaria

Sexual Culture in Bulgaria

Despite the fact that humans come into the world precisely because of reciprocating movements between men and women, sex and the theme now appears as taboo or rather mythical. Sexologists notice that nowadays the spectrum of sexual preference is rather extreme. The range is made of non-standard types of sex (in Internet, swing exchange partners sadomasochistic games, etc.) to monogamous sex (it should also say that there are people who choose to live without sex at all). The important thing is that one and the other extreme are right to exist, because the criteria for sexual norm nowadays is ambiguous and changing every year. What another two or three years are believed to be perverted form of sex, such as anal sex, is now common practice for standard Bulgarian family. And as they say in a joke: anus of a woman's husband bonus.

It is important to say that sexual norms are usually closely associated with the culture of the society, religion and the laws. For example, in the USSR from 1934 to 1993 there was an article "mazhelavostvo" which is meant: for male sexual intercourse with a man in prison sentence - up to 5 years! Bulgaria, too, there was persecution against homosexuals. America has always been much more - open to sex (which it is linked to objective reasons - people were mostly settlers and had the fastest way to populate the new earth). Indeed, in 1974 the American Psychiatric Association decided that homosexuality is not only not a disorder or pathology and the normal form of sexual communication between people. now in most countries, including Bulgaria, are very tolerant attitude towards homosexuals.

Interesting is the question: why do people have sex? Most women respond: to have fun and feel close to your partner. While men respond: to receive and give pleasure to your partner. So today, a woman orgasm is somewhat central point in sexual life for both partners. He tries to do it and she is trying for the same. And unlike previous years, when the woman was just enough to get clitoral orgasm, today it is enlightened by sexologists and magazines that you can get very different orgasm in. .. It requires men. It was found that women now safely take an active stance and tell the men about their sexual desire. There are many people who meet just about sex. Almost every hotel offers sexual services to time. As one French author: wife dinner and lunch lovers .. we can add to sex in the hotel during lunch. Bulgarians are very sexual people!

In terms of sexual culture, Bulgaria is a very good place. It has between Western Europe and Russia, and therefore takes the best things from both sides. Western Europe is now "sick" of the emancipation of women, and this has led to a reduction in fertility. Has a direct relationship between emancipation and erection. Larger women's emancipation, the - is small erection in men. Emancipation in Bulgaria just trying to go, but in the Balkans anyway will not accept it fully. So the good news is that Bulgarian men are very potent than European or American, impotence which began 40 years.

However, some sexual issues that sexologists in Bulgaria facing in their work:

1.Cheating. Lately it has become fashionable to use the term "Open Marriage." This is so-called "new" type of family where both partners can have a "legitimate" sexual relations outside marriage. Becomes reality in the following: the man do what he wants, but does not give the same freedom of its supruga. This phenomenon is well staged at Theatre 199.

2.Lack of sexual desire (not to mention the lack of erection). Both sexes have this problem. Only in women is often associated with deterazhdane and changes in hormones or excessive physical fatigue. While in men it is rather related to the lack of emotion and interest in their woman.

3.Disharmonic sexual life.Too fast ends quickly, does not want to fulfill my desires, lack of trust and intimacy in the couple etc.

4.Lack of erection or reduced erection during sexual akt.Tova what happens once the modern Bulgarian man is no erection. This is largely due to the stress that we encounter every day or on different physiological diseases are again the main stress-related.

5.Unable to find a suitable partner.World is filled with a variety of people, but to build a relationship and at least you get to have sex again requires communication skills, courage and willingness to take the first step.

As a consequence, many years that sex was forbidden topic, nowadays receives feedback loop. People talk about sex openly, and even customary to discuss intimate details with friends at a company. Now you can surprise someone with what you're doing triples or swapping their partners. Therefore nurses eagerly studied sexual techniques, diets, develop vaginal muscles and say aloud their sexual desires. As men do not feel pressured if they refuse a woman, knowing that tomorrow will find a new one.

Bulgarian sexual culture now catching up sexual energy. So at night we can watch free porn movies, read (or - rather look) new porn magazines, go to sexologists and courses related to sex, to know in the sites and found only to try and talk about sex and shopping before that the sex-shops. We want to have a fulfilling sex life!

Sex life in Bulgaria at its current level is like a young wine that is violent, unpredictable immature young and pretty. But it has its pros and beauty, right?

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Basic rules for French love

Almost all of you have probably seen the famous movie "Fate of a courtesan." While you do not remember all in your mind certainly sealed the scene in which several female courtesan puritanki ask why their men prefer it and do not pay enough attention. Courtesan without charge them a banana peel, opens his beautiful lips, and a second banana disappears. All!

Maybe for some of you this scene too, but there is no man who would not have dreamed of his wife to become a courtesan when they are in bed together. Often sympathize with the women who come to me that if we could all be courtesans for their husbands, certainly our men would not even think to seek adventure outside marriage. For cheating always blame both partners. My goal is to protect as many families from separation. Maybe it will sound strange or even cynical, but well-made pipe is the way to my heart and loyalty to man.

A friend of mine who understands women, joking that the real woman knows how to cook and suck well. English sounds like cook and suck. He added that cooking is not really that important. Of interest questioned Bulgarian men what they think about this and 99% of them say that oral sex is sometimes even more important than normal sex (and far more important than cooking)! Nice blowjob made is mandatory in order to feel satisfied and happy man. So, dear ladies, let's please our men with real professional whistles!

Blow job, blowjob, fellatio, French love oral sex ... call it what you want. However, the rules are common.

The first and perhaps most important rule is to really want to do - your goal is to deliver maximum pleasure to your man - from the heart!

During oral sex the man gives you the most precious thing you have - its Article! Do not take it for granted - teeth can cause many painful things member. So you should treat with phallus great love, affection and attention. At the time of the ancient Greeks phallus was considered the most beautiful thing, a gift from the gods. Today nothing has changed. Erect member is really wonderful and glorious! Look carefully at this miracle, which grows only at a touch of your hand! Present holder of an unforgettable experience - he deserves it!

Second - saliva

The best friend is beautiful blowjob saliva. Do not worry - there is no such thing as "lots of saliva!" The more, the better. Before sex drink plenty of water. It is desirable to have drunk alcohol as dry mouth and throat. If you know in advance that you will make a whistle - drink only water, no alcohol. The member has to easily slip past your lips and hands.

Third - use your hands

And do not just use them, but use them hard! People often stimulate the opposite sex the way they want to be stimulated, and it should be just the opposite - we are different. The clitoris is 32 times more sensitive than the glans of the members. For this reason, men often push too hard clit - they know what they like with them. In the same women - too weak encourage members because we know how much we hate when we pressed her clit harder. Get rid of it! Do not be afraid to use more force when members hold hands. Remember it this way: Article - force clit - gently.

When you hold your hand member must ask your partner are you feeling that way, or to squeeze harder. Use your entire hand and touch the entire length of the member. When you feel that your husband is close to orgasm (muscles of the buttocks and anus tighten, breathing changes, the member enlarges, releases a little pre-ejaculatory fluid and body strain) should start making more powerful moves hands and mouth, focusing on the head and place underneath. Be careful not to interrupt the meeting before the man over. Right now you should be most concentrated! Bring him to orgasm without interrupting!

Fourth - let it be your teacher

Once I had two courses simultaneously. One course was for men and the other - for women. I asked the men to come one by one in the room, which was filled with women, and to describe what they think the ideal whistle. Enter the first man and says, "The perfect blowjob means kisses my balls to play with them, suck them, play with your tongue on the surface of my entire article. Balls but the most important!"

Once it enters the second man and said: "I am just perfect blowjob game head. Please girls, do not touch the balls are just for me". Enter the third and gave the third definition. A total of eight men and no one said the same thing. That's why I have to ask what he likes - slower, faster, deeper, or just around the head. If you want you can even ask them to guide your head to show you his favorite rhythm and depth of penetration. If you love to keep your head you can ask him to put his hands on you and show you how much you can squeeze members. And please do not be shy! It's a shame to have a mouth and use it just to talk, lipstick and eat!

Fifth - Rhythm

Rhythm is very important in oral sex - for both sexes. If you only want to cause an erection, then it is not so important, but if you want to give her partner an orgasm, then the rhythm is a must. The hands must work together with the mouth, and its sequel. The mouth should always have contact with the head and arms move up and down with the same speed. Before orgasm speed can be increased, but the pace and the pressure must be maintained. If you stop for even a few seconds, are likely to have to start over. Sometimes it really is not very easy, but try to abstract from the situation and just keep doing what you do - to deliver your partner maximum pleasure! When you feel it is to low, try to take maximum deeply into her mouth.

Sixth - swallowing

Dear ladies, swallowing is a must for good blowjob. When a woman sperm spit it shows that fully accepts his partner. Many men want to be accepted. According to Eastern medicine woman's upper lip is a projection of the labia, and throat is her vagina. When you swallow, we accept his seed into the upper vagina and thus accept it. Most women have more power in this moment when the man broke into her mouth and then fills in the literal sense. Semen is useful eco friendly product and improve metabolism. If you do not like the smell should insert articles as deep in his throat at the beginning of language. There is a minimal amount of taste buds and you will not feel anything. Also very helpful and pineapple juice, which within 20 minutes alter the taste of semen and it really is delicious. Things that make semen taste bad are cigarettes, alcohol, fish and garlic. So, dear men, watch what eat before sex. Be merciful to women.

If you really feel that you are ready to swallow and keep yourself up napkins and spit in them, but most do it quietly. One of the most important rules in sex is to do only what you really want! This should be clarified before sex. If you do not want to swallow, do not do it. But it is really nice for both of you!

Seventh - special points

One of the most sensitive erogenous points between anus and testicles - perineum. Of course, it is very important to be ready for that level of intimacy. Use your tongue, press gently with him, perform circular movements studied this area. Be sure to ask him what he likes to do. You can even take his balls in your mouth, but be extremely careful and first ask whether the partner would have been nice. This place is very sensuous. Be careful with your teeth!

Eighth - light

Men love to watch women love to show. However, the woman does seem rather odd to say the least, while members sucked into his mouth, the man wants to see it! So leave the light and let you watch. This enhances his pleasure! You occasionally looking at him with desire and say things like, "How delicious!", "I like your taste!" Etc.

Ninth - poses

Experiment with poses, there are many options! For example, you are between his legs - lying or you're facing, you're on your knees, and he's right, 69 position (this is sometimes very hard not to be distracted and not all women able to give and receive simultaneously). The theme is really large, just select position in which both feel comfortable and can withstand at least 10-15 minutes. It is important to be able to freely move your head and hands. Ask your partner about his favorite pose.

Tenth - wake him with a blowjob!

I believe that if every man wakes up with a nice blowjob in this world would be much less aggression, wars and problems. I wish you could wake up your French men love and thus to increase the joy and happiness in this world. One of the great advantages of being a woman is the ability to make people very happy for you - just a few movements of the lips!

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Almost every man is worried about his size and would like to have a large penis. Men often compensate for the size of your manhood by buying big cars, offices, houses and so on. Only men regularly watch its article from top to bottom, where it looks smaller than it is!

Although women say that size does not matter, this issue continues to be relevant! Let's talk about it. One of the most common questions about sex, relationships, relative to the size of the article are as follows:

1. What is the average size of the penis in men?

2. Is one size during sex?

3. How can I increase the size?

 1. Size is largely dependent on nationality.

The smallest sizes are observed in Japanese and Chinese (7-8cm in a state of erection), and the largest - in black (20 23 cm in a state of erection). Dr. Jacobs and other ethnologists conclude that the average size of the male member is usually proportional to the size of sexual organs in women in the race. Now we will look at European race:

- Average amount of members: 16 cm

- Normal amount of members: 15-19 cm

- The size of a standard article: 18-19 cm

- Small article: <11 cm

- Big Cock: 20-23 cm

- Great article:> 23 cm

Here are the average size of the vagina in European women:

In nevazbudeno state:

Depth: 9 - 10 cm

Diameter: less than 2.5 cm (7.8 cm in circumference)

Excited state:

Depth: 12.7 - 15.2 cm

Diameter: 3.8 to 6 cm (circumference 12 to 18.8 cm)

Stretched vagina:

Depth: 20.5 - 22.8 cm

Diameter: 6.35 to 7.5 cm (circumference from 19.9 to 23.5 cm)

Statistically, only 5% of men have a size less than 9 cm and 1-2% of men can boast a length of more than 23 centimeters members. 93% of men have an average size. This means that statistically average man can satisfy statistical average woman. Where, then, these complexes appear and complaints from size?

2. The importance of size during sex

Size matters during sex ... for certain types of orgasms. If a woman wants to get deep uterine orgasms, the member must be at least 15 16 cm to reach the cervix.

30% of women are turned on by pressing the walls of the vagina and it is rather important width of the member.

There are women who ended the game with only the clitoris and their size does not matter.

It is much easier to do fellatio size no more than 12-15 cm

And for lovers of anal sex - and even the small average size is rather an advantage.

As you can see, men with smaller size also have chances to meet his partner!

A few tips:

Be confident in yourself, you are a man and a woman wants to be possessed by you! Show her this and do with her body whatever you want!

Learn proper posture (in which the member can penetrate most deeply.) Read a little about female physiology and experiment with positions. Ask her on a scale from 0 to 10 what most likes.

Learn special techniques.Po during sex slightly push the ovaries and uterus of the woman, to cause more pleasure and easier running out.

Love your partner.As greater love your partner, the less important is the size. Occasionally a man of medium size can make your partner very happy, unlike man with a large penis, which was not interested in the woman beside him.

Sex happens to the woman in the head.Аsk her about her sexual fantasies. If desired, tie her hands (one of the most common sexual fantasies for women to be raped mock). Whisper in her ear how much you stir describe what you feel (I feel your wet and hot cunt swallows my article). Speak what you want to do with it. Talk!

Add accessories. Use vaginal balls or other appropriate toy and start to have sex. Then it will surely be more closely and you will feel better.

3. How can I increase the size?

If you would nevertheless increase the size of your penis (which is a very good idea if you need to be honest), you can take advantage of many different products in the sex shops. They can help you feel GIANT! Try and experiment! Pleased and happy smile of your partner deserves this effort!

Myths and truths about anal sex

Apartment in Paris, she and he lay on the floor ... Suddenly he turned on her stomach, suddenly takes off his pants, picks up lubricant starts to massage her anus and gets it ...
In 1972. This stage produces a complete delight audiences at least, had the good fortune to catch a glimpse of uncensored version of the film "Last Tango in Paris" by famous director Bernardo Bertolucci.
Unfortunately, even today, the topic of anal sex is taboo in some countries, such as Tasmania, anal love is forbidden by law.

True Story

A very good friend of mine works as a teacher in contemporary Bulgarian school. She proudly tells me how to "protect" children from the idea of ​​anal sex, they explained that from anal sex pregnant. When very tactfully asked her how could this happen, given that the uterus and anus are two different things and have no connection with each other, she cut me with the answer: "Really?! Me ... not so important. I want to protect children from unwanted pregnancies and I think if I scared you will not do anal sex! I want to do my best for them! "

Severe sighed ... here that another generation of children will live with myths and fears about anal sex.

In this article I aim to clarify any uncertainties associated with anal sex, to get maximum information on the topics that interest you!

Without reading the below, please answer the following questions honestly:

1. Do you agree that anal sex is unhealthy and can cause hemorrhoids?

2. Do you think anal sex is very painful?

3. Who do you think gets more pleasure during anal sex - man or woman?

4. What do you take more in volume - the vagina or anus?

5. Think anal sex is dirty and unhygienic?

6. Do you think after anal sex partner will not respect you, or you considered kinky?

7. Do you think that only women with low self-esteem engage in anal sex?

8. Do you think this is not for you and you'll never get?

9. Do you have anal sex special partner who has experience with this?

10. Do you think of anal sex is impossible to get an orgasm?

11. Can become infected with genital diseases and HIV from anal sex?

Let's look at what the experts say in response to these questions:

1. Anal sex is very good for preventing hemorrhoids.

One reason for the occurrence of hemorrhoids is due to stagnant muscles. When there is regular maintenance, then these problems will not occur. An exception is the situation where a person already has hemorrhoids - then you should consult a doctor.

Besides anal sex prevents hemorrhoids sperm has the ability to improve metabolism in the body of the woman. Please readers an apology that will lead to less intimate, but it is important to know that anal sex is a wonderful remedy for constipation. Furthermore, the anus is made up of many muscles working together. The more you train, the stronger they get, which is a positive thing.

 2. Anal sex is completely painless, if they meet certain conditions.

Why is there pain? The main reason you hurt during anal sex is FEAR!

The anus has two sphincter muscles types - external and internal. To understand how they work both muscles, imagine the following:

- The external sphincter muscle can shrink at will, ie as we turn onto his hand into a fist.

- Internal sphincter muscles contract involuntarily, ie as close your eyes when you sneeze or blink.

When a person is afraid internal sphincter tightens and appears pain as it opens penis "violent." When one member enters relax very easily. Well, if at this point your partner gently whisper "Relax, everything is fine."

On one of my courses a girl complained to me that it hurts a lot during anal sex. I asked her "How did you do it? '. She protested that she was asking such simple things. "Like everyone, I bend down and he comes!" Meet my end .... Horror! Never, never do such a thing! I asked her again - "Why do not you do it by fingertips?" She replied: "... fingers? It's so dirty! Us abhor it. "

It's important to realize that qualitative sex, mature people do, not disgusting! Gnuslivostta quality is obtained from complexes and inhibitions of our parents, and the entire social system.

Your anus can be nasty. If you are not mature enough to have anal sex, please do not harass your partner. Be careful and cautious! These are important points, but with your gnuslivost can cause serious mental (and physical) injuries partner.

Always before anal sex necessarily massaging fingers. Slowly, gently, gradually, millimeter after millimeter. Keep it up until you feel three or four fingers easily enter and your partner feel good. Only then you can insert the head, and then slowly the whole article. Be sure to use lube for anal sex!

 If you follow these rules anal sex will be painful!

3. Women get more pleasure from anal sex. If you have not figured it out, read that sentence again!

For men, anal sex is more fetish and joy of expression of the confidence of the woman (it's very enjoyable for men). And while everyone likes to break the rules and do something forbidden. The woman gets more pleasure during anal sex because the anus are very many nerve endings and the G-spot can get strong indirect stimulation. Apart from this, 50% of women uterus is gently inverted and have the opportunity to experience a deep and prolonged uterine orgasm from anal sex. More orgasms you will read about below.

4. Anus takes a lot more than the vagina.

This means that if your partner has a large penis, which is sometimes difficult to fit into the vagina, it much easier to penetrate the anus and you will enjoy. Another advantage for men is that anal size really does not matter. Even men with not very large penis (5-9 cm) can deliver unimaginable pleasure a woman through anal sex. Note that a small amount is unlikely to achieve the same effect with vaginal penetration.

5. Anal sex can be the purest form of sex because the anus is washed more easily than the vagina.

A sequence of myths is that before anal sex have to do an enema. Who has done an enema at least once in their lives knows what it feels like. This is quite unpleasant procedure. I do not need to do an enema before anal sex anus but still need to be cleared. The anus has two sphincter muscles - one at the entrance (outside), and the other - the 13-15 cm depth of it. We are required to wash only the 13 to 15 cm from the first to the second sfinkeren muscle, because during anal sex only use this place.

To clean the handset take a shower, remove the top and just leave the hose. Sit on the ground and put the hose near the anus (without inserting it inside!) Run warm water and very gently penetrates it in that 13-15 inch range. Will the desire for defecation. Going to the bathroom after the water come inside, again repeat the same procedure. As time it takes 3-5 minutes. Easy and fast. Then you will be completely clean and ready for fun! Better to do it at least 20 minutes before sex to allow all the water to get out.

6. After men have anal sex maximum respect and trust the woman.

Courses in sexology for men or individual counseling often wonder what men feel towards women after anal sex. Almost always the answer is "Now I can not trust her because I know she trusts me completely," "I feel it very close, she is my wife", "Right then I realized how important for me and I for her ". It turns out that anal sex is one of the best ways to build true intimacy, trust and respect with your partner.

 7. Women with very high self-esteem (and big Shefki) get the greatest pleasure from anal sex.

Amazing, but true! Women who used to dominate life be great Shefki and control men get the strongest orgasms during anal sex. This is the only kind of sex where the control is in the hands of the partner. This fact - to be subject to being dominated by a man, a real experience for strong women, because at this point it really could be just a woman!

 8. Absolutely every woman can have anal sex.

This does not depend on the weight, experience, size of the anus, etc. All women can do it. But first it is important to realize that fact, to relax completely, to trust your partner and want to get pleasure from. Everything is in your hands!

9. It is important with whom anal sex. Anus chooses the partner.

It might sound strange, but true. No matter how much experience you have, if it's not your guy, anal sex will not work. Vaginal going to get easier, but anal - no. Suddenly you start to hurt your stomach, you will feel that you do not have the mood, something just happened ... if this is not your partner, not gonna happen. Conversely, when your man and you feel that you are willing to trust him, will feel incredibly close to him, we'll let him dominate everything will become much easier. Just if it is not, do not force things. Your anus is much wiser than you think. Not surprisingly, in this area, according to yogis, the most important living energy of Kundalini.

10. Anal sex cure anorgasmia.

The simplest is to get an orgasm from anal sex. I will even say that only anal sex can you get the most prolonged and multiple orgasms!

If anal sex happens stimulation of the anus (both sfintkera), G-point uterus and, if used vibrating ring, even clitoris! This means that all the erogenous zones participate in anal sex! No other kind of sex does not give all these options. Women who have not been able to get orgasms from vaginal sex to try anal. It is likely that this particular kind of sexual stimulation to show you what it means to call from an orgasm!

 11. Be sure to use a condom!

Like any other kind of sex, and anal seksmozhete be infected with HIV and other diseases transmitted sexually. However, by anal sex are transmitted much less sexual diseases than vaginal sex.

One very important rule - all items that have been in the anus (fingers, toys, member, etc.) must be well washed and never fed anal-vaginal. The smallest problem that may arise is to catch bacterial vaginosis, in the worst case can lead to difficulties with pregnancy. Be careful with your health! After anal sex must wash his anus!

 I can recite the many positive features of anal sex. Really worth it, I say it as a woman. However, it is better one time to do it than to hear 100 times. Be brave, open, mature and enjoy all that nature has given you! Anal sex is a bonus for both partners!

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