събота, 24 ноември 2012 г.

Myths and truths about anal sex


Apartment in Paris, she and he lay on the floor ... Suddenly he turned on her stomach, suddenly takes off his pants, picks up lubricant starts to massage her anus and gets it ...
In 1972. This stage produces a complete delight audiences at least, had the good fortune to catch a glimpse of uncensored version of the film "Last Tango in Paris" by famous director Bernardo Bertolucci.
Unfortunately, even today, the topic of anal sex is taboo in some countries, such as Tasmania, anal love is forbidden by law.
True Story

A very good friend of mine works as a teacher in contemporary Bulgarian school. She proudly tells me how to "protect" children from the idea of ​​anal sex, they explained that from anal sex pregnant. When very tactfully asked her how could this happen, given that the uterus and anus are two different things and have no connection with each other, she cut me with the answer: "Really?! Me ... not so important. I want to protect children from unwanted pregnancies and I think if I scared you will not do anal sex! I want to do my best for them! "
Severe sighed ... here that another generation of children will live with myths and fears about anal sex.
In this article I aim to clarify any uncertainties associated with anal sex, to get maximum information on the topics that interest you!

Without reading the below, please answer the following questions honestly:

1. Do you agree that anal sex is unhealthy and can cause hemorrhoids?
2. Do you think anal sex is very painful?
3. Who do you think gets more pleasure during anal sex - man or woman?
4. What do you take more in volume - the vagina or anus?
5. Think anal sex is dirty and unhygienic?
6. Do you think after anal sex partner will not respect you, or you considered kinky?
7. Do you think that only women with low self-esteem engage in anal sex?
8. Do you think this is not for you and you'll never get?
9. Do you have anal sex special partner who has experience with this?
10. Do you think of anal sex is impossible to get an orgasm?
11. Can become infected with genital diseases and HIV from anal sex?

Let's look at what the experts say in response to these questions:

1. Anal sex is very good for preventing hemorrhoids.

One reason for the occurrence of hemorrhoids is due to stagnant muscles. When there is regular maintenance, then these problems will not occur. An exception is the situation where a person already has hemorrhoids - then you should consult a doctor.
Besides anal sex prevents hemorrhoids sperm has the ability to improve metabolism in the body of the woman. Please readers an apology that will lead to less intimate, but it is important to know that anal sex is a wonderful remedy for constipation. Furthermore, the anus is made up of many muscles working together. The more you train, the stronger they get, which is a positive thing.

 2. Anal sex is completely painless, if they meet certain conditions.

Why is there pain? The main reason you hurt during anal sex is FEAR!
The anus has two sphincter muscles types - external and internal. To understand how they work both muscles, imagine the following:
- The external sphincter muscle can shrink at will, ie as we turn onto his hand into a fist.
- Internal sphincter muscles contract involuntarily, ie as close your eyes when you sneeze or blink.
When a person is afraid internal sphincter tightens and appears pain as it opens penis "violent." When one member enters relax very easily. Well, if at this point your partner gently whisper "Relax, everything is fine."
On one of my courses a girl complained to me that it hurts a lot during anal sex. I asked her "How did you do it? '. She protested that she was asking such simple things. "Like everyone, I bend down and he comes!" Meet my end .... Horror! Never, never do such a thing! I asked her again - "Why do not you do it by fingertips?" She replied: "... fingers? It's so dirty! Us abhor it. "
It's important to realize that qualitative sex, mature people do, not disgusting! Gnuslivostta quality is obtained from complexes and inhibitions of our parents, and the entire social system.
Your anus can be nasty. If you are not mature enough to have anal sex, please do not harass your partner. Be careful and cautious! These are important points, but with your gnuslivost can cause serious mental (and physical) injuries partner.
Always before anal sex necessarily massaging fingers. Slowly, gently, gradually, millimeter after millimeter. Keep it up until you feel three or four fingers easily enter and your partner feel good. Only then you can insert the head, and then slowly the whole article. Be sure to use lube for anal sex!
 If you follow these rules anal sex will be painful!

3. Women get more pleasure from anal sex. If you have not figured it out, read that sentence again!

For men, anal sex is more fetish and joy of expression of the confidence of the woman (it's very enjoyable for men). And while everyone likes to break the rules and do something forbidden. The woman gets more pleasure during anal sex because the anus are very many nerve endings and the G-spot can get strong indirect stimulation. Apart from this, 50% of women uterus is gently inverted and have the opportunity to experience a deep and prolonged uterine orgasm from anal sex. More orgasms you will read about below.

4. Anus takes a lot more than the vagina.

This means that if your partner has a large penis, which is sometimes difficult to fit into the vagina, it much easier to penetrate the anus and you will enjoy. Another advantage for men is that anal size really does not matter. Even men with not very large penis (5-9 cm) can deliver unimaginable pleasure a woman through anal sex. Note that a small amount is unlikely to achieve the same effect with vaginal penetration.

5. Anal sex can be the purest form of sex because the anus is washed more easily than the vagina.

A sequence of myths is that before anal sex have to do an enema. Who has done an enema at least once in their lives knows what it feels like. This is quite unpleasant procedure. I do not need to do an enema before anal sex anus but still need to be cleared. The anus has two sphincter muscles - one at the entrance (outside), and the other - the 13-15 cm depth of it. We are required to wash only the 13 to 15 cm from the first to the second sfinkeren muscle, because during anal sex only use this place.
To clean the handset take a shower, remove the top and just leave the hose. Sit on the ground and put the hose near the anus (without inserting it inside!) Run warm water and very gently penetrates it in that 13-15 inch range. Will the desire for defecation. Going to the bathroom after the water come inside, again repeat the same procedure. As time it takes 3-5 minutes. Easy and fast. Then you will be completely clean and ready for fun! Better to do it at least 20 minutes before sex to allow all the water to get out.

6. After men have anal sex maximum respect and trust the woman.

Courses in sexology for men or individual counseling often wonder what men feel towards women after anal sex. Almost always the answer is "Now I can not trust her because I know she trusts me completely," "I feel it very close, she is my wife", "Right then I realized how important for me and I for her ". It turns out that anal sex is one of the best ways to build true intimacy, trust and respect with your partner.

 7. Women with very high self-esteem (and big Shefki) get the greatest pleasure from anal sex.

Amazing, but true! Women who used to dominate life be great Shefki and control men get the strongest orgasms during anal sex. This is the only kind of sex where the control is in the hands of the partner. This fact - to be subject to being dominated by a man, a real experience for strong women, because at this point it really could be just a woman!

 8. Absolutely every woman can have anal sex.

This does not depend on the weight, experience, size of the anus, etc. All women can do it. But first it is important to realize that fact, to relax completely, to trust your partner and want to get pleasure from. Everything is in your hands!

9. It is important with whom anal sex. Anus chooses the partner.

It might sound strange, but true. No matter how much experience you have, if it's not your guy, anal sex will not work. Vaginal going to get easier, but anal - no. Suddenly you start to hurt your stomach, you will feel that you do not have the mood, something just happened ... if this is not your partner, not gonna happen. Conversely, when your man and you feel that you are willing to trust him, will feel incredibly close to him, we'll let him dominate everything will become much easier. Just if it is not, do not force things. Your anus is much wiser than you think. Not surprisingly, in this area, according to yogis, the most important living energy of Kundalini.

10. Anal sex cure anorgasmia.

The simplest is to get an orgasm from anal sex. I will even say that only anal sex can you get the most prolonged and multiple orgasms!

If anal sex happens stimulation of the anus (both sfintkera), G-point uterus and, if used vibrating ring, even clitoris! This means that all the erogenous zones participate in anal sex! No other kind of sex does not give all these options. Women who have not been able to get orgasms from vaginal sex to try anal. It is likely that this particular kind of sexual stimulation to show you what it means to call from an orgasm!

 11. Be sure to use a condom!

Like any other kind of sex, and anal seksmozhete be infected with HIV and other diseases transmitted sexually. However, by anal sex are transmitted much less sexual diseases than vaginal sex.
One very important rule - all items that have been in the anus (fingers, toys, member, etc.) must be well washed and never fed anal-vaginal. The smallest problem that may arise is to catch bacterial vaginosis, in the worst case can lead to difficulties with pregnancy. Be careful with your health! After anal sex must wash his anus!

 I can recite the many positive features of anal sex. Really worth it, I say it as a woman. However, it is better one time to do it than to hear 100 times. Be brave, open, mature and enjoy all that nature has given you! Anal sex is a bonus for both partners!



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