There is a widespread myth about men and women. And it is that fair sex had less desire for sex ... You see, poor men are so lacking as much as they actually want.
But there is something that is far from the truth! Because there are places in the world - such as parts of Asia, Latin America and Africa, where women are considered the main initiator of sex and so energetic in bed that their men do not need to go to the gym. How do you obyasnavate this?
In fact, if you're a man suffering from a lack of erotic satisfaction, not necessarily your women are guilty.
Better think about that as they put the label of nuns in bed and behave as if the myth is true God, yourself can deny the many good sex had envisioned.
So men today spend a long time in thoughts and fantasies about sex and also afraid of the same thing I want.
They want to be with a woman in every sense of that phrase, and many of them actually make links. But those links do not appear to be passionate and close relations, who have dreamed of. They are built based more on social savmestmost - that they share common interests and values and have similar views on many issues.
Even at its inception, these connections are started not so for sexual attraction and passion. In fact, I know a lot of young, good looking and successful men who are married early, have children and are now sexually unhappy in her marriage. So throw away eye instead consider how to arouse passion in the primary relationship. I can not help wondering why the first have banded with women who are not raztreparvali their feet ...
To create a connection only on social compatibility edvovremenno has both positive and negative aspects. Positive because it means that a good friendship relationship husband and wife often quarrel among themselves. Why do they argue? So they have no spark and cause your blood to boil. And because there is no one specific fire except that their relationship is stable, it is also quite boring - especially sexually ...
Maintaining such vrazka, the man immediately arrive at the conclusion that things are true because his wife just did not have enough libido. And naturally, began to look more "sex" (no quotes misprint) outside ramkite legitimate relationship.
But really what sex would be like when he could not inspire the woman who is willing to do more. And it is unlikely to satisfy the real lover, which his clumsy and not very exciting libido is "possessed" by their radar.
During a workshop with men happened to me to ask bold question in some primitive tribes still put the boys in their ritual of growing into a man (you know, probably the "Discovery" are rituals challenges boys in puberty must pass in order to be able later to be taken seriously as men in his tribe). So what I told my students is this: "He who is brave and bold man and not afraid of women become now! There were a dozen men, but for a while no one did. Finally one of them scratched his scalp, twirled in his chair and stood up. I asked because I thought that he was a real man and you know what I say? ... It was something in the spirit of "do not know, I just decided to become a ..."
A real man is fearless in his soul. It feels very powerful feeling to rise within him - as if a lion leaps and utters a roar in his brain when his masculinity is questioned. And this strong sensation comes from misguided courage - I mean one that actually Pradstavlyava aggressiveness (aggressiveness always afraid to turn inside out). Do not talk about reckless courage and proving yourself in paunskiya option.
Rather, I mean an inner strength that man feels to get up in his heart. He may not know exactly what awaits him, but trust yourself to see how things will develop in stride - so he is a hunter, adventurer and explorer.
If you trust your sexual instincts and intuition, it clears your idea of what you want and guide you to the right woman. Makes you naprivite things that are correct for you as an individual, and not bother to make a script that some "guru" (on paper or in person), without ever knows you, you impose.
Your own sexual instinct is the best guru and it helps you make the perfect decision every time. When purified and you learn to cope with it, he does so act immediately, without wasting time and minute doubts and speculation. Instinct knows ways in which you can achieve the best for themselves in physical, emotional and sexual level. These are the ways that your conscious mind, which is zazubril strategies and pickup lines to start a conversation, you can never tell you. Like piecing you have a personal trainer who is always available.
Nepotiskaniyat sexual instinct is one that makes you become when you ask if you brave and true man.
Men who possess it in pure form, are those who accosted the girl when he smiles at them. They are the ones who commit when the time of their lives come and met quality woman. These are men who do not need to brag about his sexual conquests, and in fact make good sex and no problem attracting and retaining female with high libido. These are men who are not afraid of intimacy with a partner who meets their criteria and do not feel they can not hold it.
How to rediscover male sexual instinct? In short, to work on yourself. In fact, the job may not be so short, but worth it. In the beginning when you just started to trust a sexual instinct, sometimes things will occur, sometimes - not. With practice will naturally get a better estimate when you listen to your inner sex "advisor" who says things like, go invite her out.
Learning to listen to their sexual instincts that modern education and society in general suppresses all men will be paid to the extent that not even suspect.
How nice it would be if all we acknowledge their sexual instincts for what they really are: a way to achieve mutual passion, intimacy and carrier compatibility, and true love.
Signs of suppressed sexual instinct:
1. Low Libido
2. Very strong libido with a desire for frequent change of partners
3. Timidity in the company of women, or vice versa - a desire for continuous speech in the company of women
4. Desire to hide from the attention of the people or vice versa - neprakasnato desire for attention from other
5. Fear that you will not get enough sex
6. Negligence of sex
7. Continuous speech jokes and sexual themes
8. Desire to watch a lot of porn
9. Desire to show off to your friends with your sex life
10. Fear of loneliness, fear of commitment or fear of intimacy
11. It crosses your mind that if you do a lot of sex, you are a man istiski
12. Excessive desire to please and be polite to women or vice versa - rude behavior towards women and desire to bombarded with cynicism
13. Negative attitude towards women - thoughts that they can not be understood and are annoying or overly demanding
14. Cheating - whether you cheat or cheat on you
Signs of free expression sexual instinct:
1. Often feel causeless joy of life
2. Feel good with people, whether silent or talking
3. Free show it like a woman and it usually strikes you the same
4. You feel comfortable in the company of women, but you are able to maintain a true friendship with men
5. Own determination of the nature
6. Have personal charisma without bragging and grandstanding
7. As you look, you know you have a charm
8. Easy take when the woman / women you say "no" on the other hand you are good spkoyno to say "no"
9. Have regular and satisfying sex life
10. You agree that masturbation is normal
11. Control his ejaculation
12. Fall of passionate partner
13. Can make compliments to women
14. Easily keep in touch
15. You know what you want out of life and love
16. Easily bind if you want
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