I have no desire to have sex!

Lately often get complaints from women who have no desire to have sex.
Not only that - they ask questions such as "What men are fictional?" And "What do people have sex?"!
Women often think that they want to start having sex, you should first man appeared to cause them.
Dear Ladies, this is exactly the opposite!
According to Charles Gelmon, president of the French Association for Sexology, sexual interaction starts ... interest in the topic of sex! Not from a partner! Sexual desire depends on the woman!
If you are one of those women who do not want sex with their current partner or blame yourself for that reason, do the following:

1. Stop wearing underwear and only wear dresses or skirts with knee length at least (for the ladies is not good to wear very short skirts). Then notice how you feel when you're naked below and the wind blows right on this wonderful place.

2. Start tantsuvateili to go to strip-dance. The important thing is to wake up in the plastic body and femininity. The strength of a woman is in her flexibility.

3. Start masturbate get an orgasm at least once a day.

Masturbation can be done with the fingers - put two fingers on the side of the clitoris and gently begin to move, creating a light and delicate vibration. Upon touching the clitoris is usually much lighter, the better.

With soul - run water under high pressure, just the clitoris and move slowly until done.

The easiest option is a vibrator-rabbit! This is a sex toy that is designed specifically to meet the woman and vaginal and clitoral - two ears of a rabbit, clitoral stimulator really cause orgasm within 30 seconds to 3 minutes!

Women in my courses shared that used cucumbers sit on a working washing machine, tighten the muscles of your buttocks and other techniques to induce arousal. Be creative. But please receive at least one orgasm a day.

4. Read and write porn stories. Just sit down and describe your sexual fantasy. If you have fantasies - think of a sexual history.

5. Put all red candles and start wearing red (the color activates sexual energy and raises sexual vibrations inside you).

6. Flirtuvaytes others!

7. Repeat 100 times a day - I love and want sex.

8. Write every day 20 QUALITY positive your partner about sex, as "it is a beautiful article," "very careful in bed," etc.

9. Watch filmisvarzani sex.

It can be tuned sex! That depends on you. I noticed the changes and praise yourself for it! You are one sexy woman, I remember it!

How do prostate massage

Much has been said about how to make anal sex with a woman where you touch to deliver the greatest pleasure, and so on. No one tells you what to do with the male anus!

The anus of the man, or rather the prostate, which is located a few inches deep, incorporates unique hidden abilities. When we learn to stimulate these capabilities become stronger erections stunning orgasms and longer intercourse.

Let's look at this in detail.

Physiologically very similar to the simple heart and it is for this reason often called the second heart of man. On the inner part looks like fig. This body has thousands of nerve endings and can compare it with the G-tochkatapri women. Applying pressure on this area (even medical conditions) causes immediate and powerful erections in men.

Massaging the prostate following results:

Larger and more powerful erections than normal;

Sexual intercourse is extended by 2-3 minutes;

The duration and intensity of orgasm increases and man can take pleasure in the whole body;

Useful prophylaxis against the development of prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate).

For information only, will mention that at the moment every second man over 50 have problems with urination, pain in the genitals and problems with erections. This can be avoided by regular prostate massage at least once every 10-14 days, within 3-5 minutes!

What are the main difficulties associated with performing prostate massage? In fact, the difficulty is only one - concern on the part of man!

Men are very wary if someone wants to get into their anus. Most often afraid lest they think the opposite. That's why I have a very gently say, I'll just gently insert your fingers, relax!

Technique of Penetration

1. Attention! Mandatory that you have nails! The skin of the anus is very delicate and easy to damage! Nails should be perfectly cropped and worn, and not bother. The massage is done with the middle finger.

2. During sex (if your partner is on top) or during a whistle (if partner has open legs and lying on his back) slowly insert your finger inside of 1-2 cm and stop. At this point I recommend men to breathe deeply.

3. Then as he gets used to the feeling, continue to penetrate a little deeper, but not more than 4-5 cm deep. Point the finger at the bottom of the body towards the testicles. Start slowly caress, first one side then the other.

4. Watch his reaction. Men often do not know how to react. On one hand it is very nice, the other - it is a bit ashamed to admit it, not to think he was gay. In the beginning, it was really new and strange feeling, the human brain is afraid of new things. If you see that it is painful or uncomfortable, reduce the pace and just add lube Hold your finger inside and doing whatever it is the very fact that you are in, has the necessary influence.

If during sex in the missionary position your partner is on top and no big belly, you can easily and Hold the it during sex to insert a finger only 1-2 cm deep, keeping your finger there. This strengthens orgasms.

Do not ask him how he felt immediately. Give him time to accept this fact in his psyche. For him it is not that easy.

Sex is always an experiment, when you have the opportunity to learn something new about yourself and others. Massaging the prostate - a very fine and professional manner to your partner happy and he forever remember the breathtaking sensations!

How to reduce your vagina ...?

After giving birth, women have two main sexual problem. The first is more psychological, lack of sexual desire (more than 40% of the mothers did not want sex earlier than 3 months after birth and 18% within one year).

The second is completely physiologically - expanded vagina, which leads to reduced pleasure from sex. We will look at this particular issue - it is an effective solution!

To begin with physiology. Broadly speaking, the vagina is composed of three things: blood vessels, muscles and tissue. At birth, these muscles relax and have a tight vagina, you should train. Professor and obstetrician-gynecologist Arnold Kegel has made a unique system, which at this point is unique and has proven effective.

Before you start training, however, must first find themselves muscles. Insert your middle finger into your vagina and squeeze firmly. Another is in the dick to stop the flow several times. This is possible because the vaginal muscles.

There are three basic exercises. It has been shown that if a woman makes in a month or two muscles will be tight and the vagina will become much closer. A matter of faith and labor!

Exercise:

1. Tightness. Inhale through the nose: hold your breath and tighten all your strength the muscles of the vagina Squat and tighten the muscles of the hips, bend your lips and squeeze very eyes. Try to keep it tight for at least 10 seconds. Then exhale through the mouth with sound. Repeat 10-15 times.

2. Flashing. Tighten and relax the muscles of the vagina. Use both fists (tighten - loosen) and eyes (close - open). Repeat 10 times without interruption as quickly. Take 10 series.

3. Push. Imagine that you walk in great need of your vagina, or the birth. Start slowly "pushing" with your vagina. You will feel the tension in the muscles of the anus and abdominal plates. Do this for 20-30 seconds, 3-5 sets.

4. Vaginal balls. Are two connected balls of string at one end. Before using clean and moisten with a little lube. At the end of the cord put small weights and try to keep the ball in the vaginal muscles. For employed businesswomen, you can do it while bathing - put a shower gel hook on the bobbin, and while bathing muscles tighten 10-15 minutes. If you can not keep the ball in yourself, then you have too much weight and should try something easier.

I'm not saying it's easy - it's not saying that it takes time - it takes! But the result is worth it! The woman who manages their vaginal muscles more easily and more quickly gets vaginal orgasm just by tightening the muscles partner gives unforgettable experiences!

 

The exercises are appropriate for women who never had children, are required for pregnant women (unless it does not pose any danger) and postpartum women (3-6 weeks after birth).

 

With regular exercise, even after birth, the muscles are returned in the same form up to 3 months. Your partner will feel the difference the first month of training!

 

No big vaginas - only laziness to work on their strength!

Cunnilingus or how to pleasure a woman with her ​​mouth?

Holidays are coming and usually these days have a lot of free time to make love ... and do it slowly, calmly and with pleasure.
It is proved that the man gets more pleasure when the woman feels satisfied and happy.
Because we are different and not so simple for men to learn what to do with our clitoris. Moreover, the clitoris is 32 times more sensitive than the glans of the member and, unlike male genetalii, requires a completely different approach and techniques.
Cunnilingus in Latin means licking the female genetalii. Dear men of note - licking, sucking instead. Do not suck the clitoris of the woman! Just lick it!

Rules for French love:


1. Create psychological and physical comfort woman

If the woman is not granted, nothing will happen. So first lower light, the best option is to use candles. Unlike men, women often worry about their body and think they are very beautiful below. So slowly dissolve legs (as pre kissing her body and head to the inner thigh). Put a pillow under her ass - this will reduce the strain your neck and you longer to do the French love.

2. Admire her

In breaks between kisses her, saying how beautiful, how delicious smell, it makes me excited ... etc. Give her admiration at this time. Make her feel a goddess!

3. Start with "broad" language and lots of saliva

At first, the language should be as widely protruded. So just relax and start with its entire surface to lick labia majora, then small. Then start making large circles to the clitoris (without touching it). Here, as in tune, it is important to have saliva. If a woman's genitals are dry, then it can hurt when you press the clitoris

4. Slowly bend language and slow circles

After 2-3 minutes, slowly and gently licking broad language when she trembles and gently lift the pelvis (thus showing that he wants to lick her clitoris), start with tight language to make small circles and close to the clitoris itself.

5. Light and motion trepeeshti

Postepenno start making so-called "butterfly wings". Please take a mirror to see what was going on. Open your mouth and pull the tongue as much as possible first. Bend it as closely as possible. Take your finger and start to move very quickly from left to right or top to bottom. Do it quickly and at the same time very light, barely touching fingers. The more light touch to the clitoris, the more exciting! The more powerful and pressures less effect.

6. Techniques touch

Make circles in one direction and the other starting from the largest and finally become very small, very precise and clit clit very lightly touching the top.

Eights - make a tight figure eight languages ​​by touring the clitoris up - down into a rhythm! Rhythm during oral sex is important not only for men! Women also of great importance. When you see that it starts to iziva and groaning, continue in the same rhythm. Almost every woman loves when Lisa for the man to add fingers - to insert into the vagina or anus. Try and ekperementirayte this. Occasionally stop and start kissing her hips and then come back to her clit (again with lots of saliva).

7. Ask for feedback and give your feedback

Every woman is different and individual (or any man). Ask her to tell you if she wants something special. For example, while Lisa inserting her finger into the vagina or anus, to say something dirty to increase or decrease the tempo. Often women think that if they say something, he will be angry. So talk before sex and when she tells you something, answer it: Thanks for telling me, it helps me! Give her positive feedback on its feedback or request. Sounds simple, but most people do not because they think it's so clear. Not so! While the man did not give permission to share the woman during sex, it is often, not always, but often do not say anything, hoping that he himself would know.

Be open and creative. Especially for this kind of sex is very important how a man treats a woman. Make it a pleasure, not a duty. It is also the very man to enjoy the process and experiences with her ​​partner orgasms!

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Travel to diversity in sex

Travel to diversity in sex

When I opened the door seksshop quickly realized that open the door to sexual paradise!
The first of which was ignored toy directly answer my hidden sexual fantasies!

Vagina ball with remote control!
It's so cool to let the man next to you on the one hand to dominate to do with what your body decides on the other side to do something Palov a public place. Just imagine - go to the theater or other public place, and he pushes the button on the remote! All your vagina starts to vibrate and you can get orgasms, being in the company of other people, and no one but you will understand it! And only a man would know when it will stop this sweet sorrow.

Then I saw that this is only the beginning! Smart sexologists are taken care of and our wonderful female chest! Turns out there for breast massagers, which help to avoid lumps and even better prevention of cysts, as this part of the body moves blood more difficult because of the tightness of the bra. Of course, I had tried it once and terpenie this massager .... except for benefits turned out to be quite exciting! Izvavadih them quickly, do not provoke much because I had the idea to continue to study this paradise!

Then my eye fell on one massager invented specially for lazy men! Constantly doing massage my husband, but rarely get the same from him. Because he said he did not know how to do massages. And lo! There is a solution! This can make absalyutno anyone with two hands. First Spread whole body with warm oil massazh. Then take massager hole body and start playing with a companion body, finding hidden erogenous zones that we women have the most unexpected places. Has a unique vibration and whole body of the woman begins to twist. If on top of that tie her hands and eyes to allow you to fully control the situation ... her enthusiasm will be unique. You can also insert one of the three balls in the vagina and can run the turbo. The result is almost instantaneous clitoral orgasm, vaginal flowing in!

Because I'm selfish, I found a gift for your partner to me.

The first thing that impressed me is masturbation egg for men. Looks like an Easter egg, and wondered what this thing does in this store for adults. It turned out that this wonderful egg is a unique analogue of female vagina. Jump by flesh! Put it on top of the head and start to masturbate! It is suitable for men who want to train to keep her squirting. If you learn to masturbate half an hour with the egg, then you will easily learn how to have sex for half an hour. A unique simulator future perfect lovers.

And that's not all. There is care and male ass. Prostate massagers. We talked about how the male prostate and need stimulation to prevent prostatitis, have bigger and longer erection. This is a must for women after 40 years. Very nice extra to whistle!

Sure, and arranged for CE female buttocks.

Another common sexual fantasy - a rosary ass!

For fans of the games is very good. Because the anus and vagina are very close, if you get this rosary in her ass while husband put your penis in your vagina, you get a stunning effect. Simultaneously man can her into a woman, and not deducted until it izplani any of his desires. For all his desire realized he could remove one ball from her ass. After 20 minutes a woman will do anything just to relieve her soft body!

  But most attention in these shops devoted to the vagina!

From countless different vibrators (all shapes, colors, with a sense that is made from human skin, with stimulation of Gi point, etc.), we chose three vibrators which we believe are the most interesting

The first is for lovers of loud music! Vibrator that works with MP-3player. Play music, connect it to your vagina vibrator and started playing and singing inside. Whenever surprised by the imagination of the people! It's very interesting when you play music with a strong Afrikaans drums and bass ...

The other is an elegant vibrator with five different types of vibrations. Honestly, I got this beauty in your hands and I realized that I have no fear left alone ... even if no man beside me at the moment though I am very happy and satisfied. This vibration miracles and wonderful boost point G. As an optional extra with this vibrator and your partner can join and enter the butt. Man ends almost mgnovenno of this vibration that feels with you. Deserved pleasure for both of you!

 And the icing on the cake - dildo-jewels with Swarovski and tail of a fox! Uniquely beautiful thing and very suitable for lyuksozen podarak! I put it as a decoration at home. Hard, pink dildo completely repeats the curves of the female body with various modes. Just by touching the skin with a tail that I feel all goose bumps!

Frankly, while describing all the things I felt how much I have sex! With these simple items you can turn ordinary, routine family sex in a memorable experience for two!

Heartily wish you an exciting and passionate sex!

The power of femininity

I have a favorite story about the strongest man in the world, I want to share with you my friends and readers.

In a kingdom by the king wanted to find the strongest man, announced race. Knights of cities began to come to fight. Finally, after many weeks of strenuous battle was a definite winner. It was a very big and strong man and lived in a village. The king decided to visit him and see where he grew up the hero. Go there and invite him to Primea to him and poyavayava a beautiful tiny little woman who looked at him with loving eyes and said, you're not going anywhere, here we good? And look at her character and turned to King and said sorry king, but it was stronger than me and will always do what she wants.

Femininity is the greatest force in our society. Women who have entered their femininity live with ease and joy.

How to be feminine and to become a woman who can conquer even the strongest man?

1. Take your mother 100%

The mother is the first woman we see in our lives. We take her pattern of behavior, either directly or vice versa, ie and we all do the same or backwards. Learn to love your mother noticing it good things to admire her. Another important point - stop her regret and condemnation. It only needs your respect and honor. While the woman has no respect for his mother, the men will not respect it!

2. Highlight your femininity through personal qualities

Write what qualities do you possess a truly feminine woman - perhaps it is smoothness, softness, ability to accept sexuality, feline grace, etc. Write what are most pronounced qualities to you in time from 0 to 10 and which the least. Begin to develop more those who are most pronounced. Think about what specific things you can do. For example, if you want to develop tenderness begin to watch what words you say, say more kind words, hug people show tenderness towards yourself and others.

3. Take care of your body

The woman should be beautiful and happy and it's our obligation Women! This means being careful with the food you eat in your body. Remember that you are what you eat. Forget about the cookies, chips, cola and all sweet and unhealthy foods. Necessarily take 2-3 liters of water every day - it certainly reduces cellulite. Moreover, sports and dance. It's very attractiveness even for you when you tight and beautiful body.

4. Find your style and permanent make-up

Beauticians are not accidentally invented the face cream, hair conditioner, makeup, etc. Women's responsibility to take care of yourself to be beautiful. The gown that matches your figure heels, elegance and style. Your style! Now there are many courses on how to determine your color and style, make use of the advice of specialists.

5. Allow yourself to be pampered

 

Ankle - this is a nice word for a woman. Ankle will carry 5 bags of food will not clean the house after work. For her, the kind of situations: sorry dear, I have no time for you are strangers. A woman who indulges himself alone and requires that it receives from men. Be bold in your desires. Imagine what would make one indulges in this situation? Perhaps she herself would choose an appointment that is convenient for her. It asked him to go get it. It said he did not like this restaurant and wanted another, and the way the restaurant would love some dress and would ask you to stop and take it immediately, otherwise you will have a good appetite. Interestingly, men usually buy a few dresses and are very pleased with how lucky is drawn to this woman!

 

6. Be happy, grateful and admire aloud everything you see.

 

All we were little girls and maybe you still remember how your grass is very green cost, a cloudless blue sky and how you love to run after pererudkite. Do you think that heaven is no different or butterflies? No! You just stopped noticing them! Pause, exit to the balcony and look out. Find something you like a lot and say at least 10 good adjectives for it, express their admiration as a little girl. Then do the exercise with your ssamite - describe themselves as a goddess, then do the same with another loved one. Even Indian teacher Osho says that woman very easily reach their spiritual development, where he learned to be given entirely to the man and to see God in him. But this is only possible if you learn to admire the world to you.

7. Express boldly, but not vulgar your sexuality

 

Remember, you have the right to be sexual. Say it out loud: I am a woman and have sex have sex! Learn more about your sexuality. View our genetalii in a mirror, admiring them! Speak boldly about sex. Never say "No" to her beloved man! I know it's not like all women, but when I asked Bulgarian men what they found in the Russians, they said, the Russians never say "NO". This really is due to the higher degree of education. You can opt out of it, but I can say that it works. It is a matter of choice for every woman. Learn To Speak softly and beautifully on their desires. Allow yourself to be a slut.

 

Seek inner woman in you, but your help and physically through the above things.

 

I wish you much love and happiness as women!

Hidden female fantasies

It is important to know that every woman has their hidden sexual fantasies (except women that specifically suppress their sexuality). Women are often afraid to share them, because fear of misunderstanding or condemnation to her partner. Honestly I have not met a man a woman has shared his fantasy, he thinks it is immoral. Usually, he immediately turns and ready for action. We strongly encourage you to share your fantasies, but how to do it so as not to offend your partner and yet to realize at least some degree? And why different women have different fantasies?

You fantasize about:

1. Ceks with several men at once.

What women love this kind of fantasies: Man-narcissus. You are confident with their sexuality and attractiveness to men and love showing it. Do you love several men at the same time your entire body to feel pleasure, which no worse.

Realization: You can share this fantasy with your partner, if you are confident that it will complexes. But even if it exists, is still out. Prepare three things: an artificial phallus or a fruit-shaped member lubricant (if you are a fan of anal sex) and blindfold. When one stops to see, it starts to feel more. There is a big difference between being blindfolded and you just close your eyes. Then ask your partner to make you anything you ask and tell him that you have long wanted to be zapaleneni in all its magnificent caves. Even if you do not want anal caress themselves blindfolded plus a little imagination give the impression that sex with many men. This is very exciting. Your partner how you like Didier apologized and call will also be much bolder in their actions.

2. Sex with elements of sadomasochism

The official founding of the so-called self-masochism in sexual relations are French, the most famous of which is the Marquis de Sade.

What women prefer mild pain and submission during sex: These are usually very strong and successful women in bed at least want to feel helpless women who give up their partner. She wants to be possessed and at least a little control to be fully man, but to be in a subordinate position. This fantasy is very common especially now in the age of feminism. Nature is nature.

Realization: Warning, not currently talking about a real pain or injury! These fantasies can be realized with a person whom you trust 100%. You are welcome pink fluffy handcuffs, leather lingerie, sex whip a scarf of hands or eyes. You can get great pleasure if you allow your partner to connect you and give you a little slap on the butt (blood goes to your butt and gives stronger orgasms). The other option is just to do it with your body what it has long yearned. For example, to get you to do deep blowjob and swallow. Often women say it quite that way get the strongest orgasms right here because losing control is guaranteed. Before this game, certain words or tone, if you want to stop this game. Also, you should always sober - alcohol is used in this type of game. These are the required conditions.

3. Sex with another woman

According to statistics 65% of women are bisexual but only 15% recognize it.

What woman dreams about: Usually the women are very delicate and emotional. Often partners have no experience or are rude and do not give them sufficient advance games and oral sex. They dream of finding a woman who will give them that understanding, tenderness and oral caresses.

Realization: Tell your partner that you dream about having sex with another woman, how you would like it to flatter you and ask him to do this with you. Take an ostrich feather and ask him to caress you with it all over, you smear with chocolate or cream, especially on genetaliite and slowly lick you. Let's do it, until you stop it. About all your most hidden desires - as you lick the anus or toes. Be brave and open. Imagine that you say of a man who longs to fulfill your fantasies.

4. Sex in a public place.

Many women dream of sex and how other people are watching them, how go naked as strippers or masturbate in front of others.

What women dream about: Women of the demonstrative type, who love drama and risk, to show love and seek spontaneity. It is useful for those who have a boring life and seek diversity. Women are more exhibitionists than men.

Implementation: 90% of men dream about sex interesting place. This can be done very simply. Good places for this: out among nature, cinema, restaurant in the toilet on a train, car, beach, sea, etc. Your job is just to say, "Honey ... I have a request for you ... I really want to suck on it right away. I really began to miss him. "Then you can add that your vagina needs it ...

I am convinced that no man will deny this small request.

5. Sex with a stranger

Many women often fantasize about going to a bar and there are introduced to a handsome man. A few words go with it and make great sex, and then, without saying his name, leave.

What women dream about this sex: Women who usually play the role of a very righteous woman, a mother, a housewife. Who fear what people will say about them. In this fantasy, she finally could afford to bitch and cry, to let go and be wild.

Implementation: With your partner, make a permanent appointment to see a restaurant somewhere near the hotel where he can get a room. Hold on if you've just met. You can put a wig and sexual challenging or new, unusual clothes for you. Flirt, ask him to treat you. Then, without saying noshto go to the hotel, imagining that you see this person for the first and last time. Let your absalyutni folly. Tell obscenities, play the role of the hussy. Morning get up earlier, leave only kiss with lipstick on the bathroom mirror and leave before him.

6. Playing the role of sexy stripper

To do a quality strip must really love your body.

What women dream about: Women who like to feel their sexual power over men. They love them crazy with desire to be truly unforgettable lovers.

Realization: Striptease started in the mirror when you play exciting music, and you must seduce YOURSELF! Until you learn that there is no way to really stir up the man himself! So I do the heavy makeup, put perfume, special clothes with many buttons, stockings and suspenders and look into your own eyes. Start dancing slowly and smoothly and gradually undress. The time is not more than 10 minutes. Striptease should not be very long. The basic idea is slow and happy to show her body piece by piece, as the magician shows his numbers. Good first yourself to be excited and only then can arouse your partner.

It is important to remember that there is no such thing as "dirty fantasies." You are normal temperamental woman and have fantasy. For you it is a way to get and give more pleasure yourself and your partner to you.

I wish you many beautiful and interesting fantasies!

NEW How to develop your sexuality?

I notice that people who lead active sex life live longer, better and realize their dreams. They experience more interesting events in their lives and leave more stuff behind. They have high quality of emotions and feelings.

Sexual energy is much force in itself. And all power, it can destroy but can also help. Not understanding the spiritual laws of sex, does not absolve us from responsibility. How to develop your sexuality?

According to the French school of sexology has several stages through which human sexuality:

1. Interest in the sex

Often we think tozva willing to come on their own or our partners have to rise. This is a very big mistake! Only we ourselves are responsible for our sexuality! This means to read, talk, watch, be interested in this topic.

Recommendation: erotic stories found on the internet and read them every day, discuss with your partner your erotic fantasies, raised the subject of sex with their friends, dressed sexy strokes.

2. Desire

Desire starts to love her body. To be more direct - by the love of his genitals. Look at them, see how beautiful and perfect. They are sacred, just through them in this world, a new life and perhaps there is nothing more beautiful than that.

Recommendation: your everyday look genetalii least 5 minutes without clothes and talk nice to them epithets.

3. Agitation

I'm sure if you've done the first two steps above, it has long have aroused. If not - go back to the first point. No skips.

Recommendation: the moment in which arousal occurs internally to say, sex is something pure and beautiful, and I want to prizheveya right now, and just this guy.

I want sex!

4. This plateau is the time kooyto you're in predorgazmen stage. You feel that a little more and your body will explode.

Recommendation: Stop thinking! Feel! Tightens internal muscles scream, move, breathe through your mouth, do not think! Feel! Give yourself over to your partner and their feelings. Everything is allowed!

5. Orgasm

Almost no comments. Running out is always nice. It is important in how it is - of your game with your own clit from entering the partner of some things they dokoskvat. It is good to have an orgasm and body relax.

6. awareness

What really happened? Am I happy or not? Like me or was the first and last time?

Recommendation: Do not think so. It's just sex, although it is a very intimate and beautiful process. Learn to see in each sex the best moments. Thanked partner and yourself, and say what you like the most.

I notice that people have more problems in the first stage, they have no desire or when it passes into the plateau orgasm, and just stay on level plateau. I know that this can not be changed. I dare say that orgasm is a habit that develops. And most importantly - to have more knowledge on the subject. With joy and pleasure will tell the whole month on this topic. December is the month when our sexual culture. So we have a lot sabiyatiya on this topic.

Why do not you work?

Have you had to go somewhere or meditation training where you explain something and you say: "E, exactly what I'm looking for so long! Now I know how to change ". Initially after the course you are very keen, do things 100 percent, but not always as expected. Again, things are back to the same level. You begin to ask yourself some questions:

- Am I doing something wrong or not dostatochno what I do?

- Coach Is it invented all this ... all this psychology is nonsense and does not work?

- Maybe I'm too difficult case only if I do not get what is perhaps worse - this is my karma?

- Maybe we should wait ... but how can I wait? I want results NOW!

Indeed, why not have the desired result as soon as you want to or why the changes are not happening?

1. Mission and identity - Who are you and what do you live?

All changes occur, starting from the stage of identification and mission in this life! In simple terms, when you realize WHAT do you live? What can you do?

For example, you say - I am healthy and happy woman with a loving husband and two children.

The coach can give you direction, but it is important for you to start living in a new way.

Answer the questions: What behaviors would have loved a woman? How would you communicate with men? How would apportioned their time and what would be a priority for her? How it objective optimization would understand that living as a loving and beloved wife?

2. Repetition

Brain - a computer that totally hates change. The more things are known about him, the more the better. When he used to live 30 years as a woman who likes men and has to deal with in life, and suddenly she began to tell him: I love men, and let them take care of my brain decided that she cheats. He did not believe her and wait until it passes. Normally, if you repeat it, the effect of training resolves within 3-6 months!

3. Confidence in yourself and the Universe

Believe it is possible. Believe precisely when nothing happens, believe when no one believes even believe, not because! Exit the house without money with full faith that someone will take care of you this day. Make a thing early on and just watch how the universe will help you to become a reality. Reality is what you believe!

Trust the universe, that everything happens exactly when you're ready and when is the right time for you.

Every time you think it does not work - it really stops working for you! You do not need to doubt - you just need faith!

4. visualization

If we talk about love, awakening is pictured hugging his favorite person and it makes breakfast or how you wake up your kids, or how the smell of wood in their new beautiful house. It's important to do it every day at least 20-40 minutes (when awake, sleep and drive a car).

5. surroundings

Be surrounded by people who already have what you need you. This means that they have already come out of this high vibration and when you meet them, so you're somewhere close. Minimize interaction with people who grumble and they pull down, or at least if you have to see them, ask them to tell you only positive things.

6. How to evaluate yourself - Result or process?

Sometimes we chase results so that we stop noticing the process. Very often the process is more important than the actual result. Of course, it depends on the mentality of the people. People in the East are process oriented, people in the West (including Bulgaria) - the result. No coincidence there are so many neuroses in our society. Found the path of personal development. Just the fact that you took a step and I went to training, or buy a book, or often feel happy, or at least realize most things - this is performance!

Praise yourself for what you did for yourself, even for the smallest things. We appreciate your inner work of self that works for you constantly. Give her praise and honor, he managed to do everything on time, you have friends that want to develop that trust in him.

Please, give your praise and encouragement for anything! This is the path to your dreams! I wish you success in this time!

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How to live freely?

What do you want?

I have one question most frequently asked of all its customers. This is the hardest question in the world! Sometimes it takes several hours or even days and weeks to really find the answer. This issue relates to the present and future. It requires courage and strength.

Often I ask this question, and the person in front of me goes on to describe how difficult it is his life and why he did not go. I ask him hard again. And he still stubbornly describes my problems ... Why we find it difficult to answer this fascinating question - WHAT YOU WANT?

I have an exercise if you want to do it autonomy. Let someone asks you five minutes just the same question - What are you?

Often in the early going different material things (new car, house, money).

Sometimes people think more about their health and family (I want my family to be happy, all are healthy).

People who do not have happy relationships, want to meet a partner or improve relations with your loved one.

But what always amazes me is that extremely rarely say I love you, I want a new life, I want to be happy and to laugh, I want to have joy and to enjoy the sunset each day, I want to thank myself for all you've done. I want to be!

Rules, and one study was shown that only 10% of people in this world know what they want! The other 30% sometimes know what they want, but only one field. The remaining 60% did not know or rather do not want to know.

  Why so difficult to find the answer to this question? - Because it requires responsibility. Because often become accustomed to living in a "problem area" (which is usually related to the past). Everyone has a past. Each of us has had some problems in it. But my question is what does it focus? On what was (your mother, not you said that you love your husband or who you hurt) or what you really want!

Give yourself some time to sit most loose and if you had the prospect of talking to a magician with a magic prichitsa, asked him what would happen to you?

Some tips how to be to follow your goal:

- Maximum bold (give complete freedom to the dreamer himself)

- Specific (how will you know that it happened, how it will change your behavior, your broadcast, relations with the people next to you, your self-esteem, etc.)

- Realistic - imagine that one year has passed and how this vision fits into your life (this is the time of the internal critic)

- Truthful (ask yourself WHY you want it? Because for yourself or your mother, or because others tell you that you need something)

- Positive (think of at least 10 positive affirmations that will help your goal)

- Hardworking! Working and give 100% of myself to you! All k

oeto described above, no work will be done for sure!

Anything is possible, but you really answer the question: What actually WANT!